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It's been going on for months and no matter how many I mark as spam and block they keep coming back with new numbers!

Makes me wonder if someone signed me up for something

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[–] AlwaysNowNeverNotMe@kbin.social 96 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lol and they're trying to sue Gmail for blocking them.

[–] Maeve@kbin.social 16 points 1 year ago

I wish i could block gmail’s \ invited you to view a file “

[–] Izzy@lemmy.world 82 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How is this not illegal, but sending spam emails is? What a messed up world.

[–] TheActualDevil@sffa.community 5 points 1 year ago

Good news! It is illegal!

Political campaign-related autodialed or prerecorded voice calls, including autodialed live calls, autodialed texts, and prerecorded voice messages, are prohibited to cell phones, pagers or other mobile devices without the called party's prior express consent.

If you think you’ve received a political robocall or text that does not comply with the FCC’s rules, you can file an informal complaint with the FCC at fcc.gov/complaints. If you are receiving texts that you didn’t ask for, report the sender by forwarding the texts to 7726 (or "SPAM"). Campaigns should also honor opt-out requests if you reply "STOP."

I file a complaint for single one I get.

[–] NocturnalEngineer@lemmy.world 70 points 1 year ago (2 children)

"I will always love you..."

Literal stalkers. Fucking creepy.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Reminds me of messages pornstars send "you".

hey baby, I made this just for youuuuuu.

$9.95

you're a dollar naughtier than most

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I wish I had the talent to draw Sexy Nurse Napoleon 😄

[–] The_Ferry@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I too wish you had that talent so I could witness your glory

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[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 48 points 1 year ago (3 children)

In my country, I can just report the numbers, and the regulation agencies come down like a ton of bricks on them.

[–] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 29 points 1 year ago

Ah, you have an effective county in this regard. In the US, our lawmakers specifically carved out exceptions for political spam.

[–] Patches@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 year ago

In my country, Politicians are the ones who write the law so they explicitly carved out "Political speech" as exempt in our very lax SPAM laws.

[–] InfiniWheel@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

Technically I should be able to do so in mine too, but they are soo many calls from so many different numbers it doesnt work

[–] newthrowaway20@lemmy.world 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

So who loves you that you blocked and deleted their number? Lol.

[–] extant@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Four dots for an ellipsis? What a monster!

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[–] Wage_slave@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

Someone out there is hurting bad after expressing themselves.

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[–] macisr@unilem.org 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No wonder grannies and grandpas fall for those assholes. Regarding your wondering, sometimes sites info leaks because of some vulnerability and they don't even say. Check if some of the sites you have your phone number on hasn't been hacked or some shit. It's surprising how many leaks sites don't report.

[–] Oha@lemmy.ohaa.xyz 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Those messages sound pretty creepy ngl

[–] kamiheku@sopuli.xyz 15 points 1 year ago

I will always love you....

[–] cryptosporidium140@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This is a fantastic way to lose smart voters... maybe they don't need to worry about that

[–] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 17 points 1 year ago

What makes you think they are looking for smart voters?

[–] bingbong@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, they definitely don't need to worry about their non-existent smart voters😂

[–] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 year ago

I'm Don Jr I'm here asking for your opinion not money $.

Should I buy 5 pounds of coke or 8.... never mind I'll just buy 12.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sounds like Gym Jordan's team was wrong to think they could count on you!

[–] lars@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s a typo of the cleverest variety considering the millions of human-hours of misery and self harm that occurred after

  • hundreds of athletes were sexually abused at the school where he was a wrestling coach and
  • Jordan became aware of the abuse, and even worse than saying nothing, he also begged victims and their families to deny it as well
[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not a typo, I'm deliberately referring to exactly those crimes of his.

[–] lars@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

referring to exactly those crimes

Thank you for your service.

Next time someone complains about cancel culture, let’s all remember to enlighten them about Gym fucking Jordan, whose ethical bankruptcy has gone unpunished and almost seems forgotten.

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[–] ptz@dubvee.org 20 points 1 year ago

If you read them from the bottom up, it's like they're from a super crazy ex.

[–] DocMcStuffin@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Digging into the FCC's website reveals that robotexts are illegal without prior consent. However, if they hand enter the message, that's legal.

That lines up with my experience the one time I kept getting annoying political texts. There was a human at the other end. They happily removed my number from their list after I threatened to vote for the other team if they kept harassing me. But that was the Democrats.

You can try some of the FCC's recommendations, but I would generally assume malice in this instance. The political entities will probably disappear before anything can be done.

Report Unwanted Calls and Texts

If you think you've received a political robocall or text that does not comply with the FCC’s rules, you can file an informal complaint with the FCC at fcc.gov/complaints. If you are receiving texts that you didn’t ask for, report the sender by forwarding the texts to 7726 (or "SPAM"). Campaigns should also honor opt-out requests if you reply "STOP."

[–] variants@possumpat.io 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Does it work if it's always a new number? Nikki Haley sends me one a day. Most of them have some shady link to donate or get free shirts so it's definitely some scam either way

[–] DocMcStuffin@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

For reporting them, probably not. For trying to opt-out with a STOP reply, depends on them playing by the rules. Do you think they will play by the rules? I don't. I would assume malice. That they would forward your number to a bunch of other lists. You might not get Nikki's spam, but you'll get spam from 3 other PACs that are only 2 months old.

[–] swab148@startrek.website 7 points 1 year ago

Sounds like she's down bad

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Replying to spam is usually just a way to confirm that the victim is a "life" one.

[–] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I guess republicans are dumb enough to be susceptible to this garbage?

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Democratic candidates send texts too. I don’t go around handing out my phone number but at some point I must have given it to someone, perhaps Bernie when I volunteered for his campaign. Of course they sold it to more democrats who sold it to more democrats. I reply STOP to every single text I get but there are always more because my number gets sold to someone new.

Charities do this too. Give $100 to your local food bank and you’ll start getting donation appeals by mail from 5 other charities.

It should be illegal.

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[–] jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You're talking about people who consider Newsmax and "One America News" to be the only reliable news sources and believe that Donald Trump, who managed to spend 4 years indirectly robbing them blind and would not spit on them if they were on fire, is somehow the most persecuted man in all of history.

They would believe just about anything.

[–] Swim@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 year ago

some of those say they came directly from mr.trump himself /s

[–] MrMobius@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 year ago

Damn that seems really infuriating. Where I live there's a government program to forbid anyone to send you ads or political propaganda (and the best part is that you can report those who slip through the net!) It isn't fool proof but it did decrease the amount of calls from people trying to sell me shit I don't want.

[–] Roflmasterbigpimp@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] PickTheStick@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

It probably falls under the 'not illegal' category. They got the number somehow, and I would bet it's from some stupid agreement that lets a company sell his number and whoever buys it is allowed to send messages to it.

It's also hard to get harassment charges for these, since realistically it is hard to contact the assholes and tell them to stop sending messages, which is required for most cases. There's also the issue that harassment needs to be a repeated thing (and usually after being told to stop) from the same source/conspiracy. If you could prove all of these different messages were from the exact same organization, or that each entity sending the messages had collaborated, you could possibly get a judge to agree that harassment took place. Then, of course, your issue becomes the question of who did the harassment. If the judge/jury believes that it was a particular individual at the corporation, maybe that person could be prosecuted, but if they only will say that it was the entity, like a PAC or LLC or inc. or whatever, you're boned. No one holds business/political entities accountable.

All that to say... those of us who get these messages are boned, with little legal recourse. I just block the numbers and delete. It seems like it works, because I haven't gotten any messages like OP did for the last year or so. They must reuse numbers to send texts.

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[–] obinice@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is this not illegal in your country?

Perhaps you could contact some of the politicians sending you these texts and ask them what they're going to do to make it illegal?

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Here's the fun part- it's illegal to do that if you put yourself on the national do not call list, BUT- political spam calls and texts are exempt. Something tells me our politicians don't want that to change.

[–] Ambiorickx@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

During the 2022 cycle I made the mistake of donating to a lefty cause, and this year I was getting up to twenty (20) grifting emails a day. Just a few well-crafted email filters later, it’s down to zero. For texts, as soon as one comes in it’s “block and report as junk”. I’ll keep this up until I have every fucking number in the US listed as junk I don’t care.

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[–] squiblet@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Wow, I sure would hate to get a text from Jim Jordan.

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[–] pound_heap@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Welcome to !privacy@lemmy.ml - you'll learn not to share your phone number with strangers.

[–] hansl@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Looks more like someone (a friend or family member) signed him up as a prank. There’s not much you can do about that specifically.

OP, are you signed up to the federal do not call registry? That might help. https://www.donotcall.gov/

The only other thing I do is either block any text from people not in your contact list and/or use a paid service like RoboKiller.

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[–] Vexer77@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The Dems do this too. Certainly discouraged me from making donations.

[–] ilmagico@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I keep getting spammed by dems, they keep calling me Mark. My name is not Mark...

[–] puffy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago
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[–] BrikoX@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 year ago

It's legal to buy your information from data brokers. No need for someone to sign you up for anything.

[–] gamey@feddit.rocks 5 points 1 year ago

God damn, you should probably try to sue for that torture!

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