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I hate peaking under the stalls or knocking doors to figure it out. The answer is so simple.

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[–] themurphy@lemmy.world 131 points 10 months ago (2 children)

TIL occupied indicators are not standard in the rest of the world.

[–] fritata_fritato@lemmy.nz 15 points 10 months ago

Exactly! I genuinely learnt something from this post. What a strange world we live in, something so basic for over a century is not used by the hegemon

[–] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 10 months ago

I think it's uniquely US problem, along with weird gaps so you can always look at the person shiting

[–] meco03211@lemmy.world 106 points 10 months ago (2 children)

In the US just peer through the crack between the door and the wall. Ensure solid eye contact with the current occupant. Determine how much time they've left. Adjust plan accordingly.

[–] Cold_Brew_Enema@lemmy.world 34 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I always reach under the stalls to grab their ankles. Scaring the shit out of them speeds things up

[–] Akasazh@feddit.nl 8 points 10 months ago

The most literal case of scaring the shit out of someone.

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[–] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 18 points 10 months ago

You shouldn't do that.

The doors are deliberately designed to have a large gap on the bottom, so you can poke your head through. This is the correct way of doing it.

[–] Prometheus@lemmy.world 68 points 10 months ago (3 children)

We have these for years in Europe

[–] onevia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Where is the 6 in gap between the door and stall??

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 28 points 10 months ago (3 children)
[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago (2 children)
[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 6 points 10 months ago

To be fair, it sounds better to have a 1 meter gap than it does to have a 3 foot gap when you have no sense of scale.

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[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 21 points 10 months ago

I thought this is everywhere

And I've never been to Europe

[–] macrocephalic@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

I'm middle aged and I don't recall a time in my life when vacant/occupied indicators weren't on all public toilets.

[–] hellothere@sh.itjust.works 49 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

They do in the UK - where are you?

[–] bigbluealien@kbin.social 21 points 10 months ago

Yeah I don't think I've ever seen one without, but being red-green colour blind I wish most didn't only use those colours

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[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 35 points 10 months ago

Because in the US you can usually see the person shitting through the ridiculous gaps in the stalls.

This is why we can't have nice things.

[–] mangosloth@lemmy.world 32 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah here in Japan most places have a red and blue indicator that moves with the lock. Bidets and toilet seat sanitizers are also pretty standard in any decently modernized areas. We kinda win when it comes to bathrooms.

[–] Waker@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

Just got back from Japan. I'm always surprised when I'm in the middle of nowhere and the public restrooms have heated sitting, deodorizer, bidet, background sounds. Like... Wtf? That's better than my toilet at home. And I'm not even from the US 🙃

[–] Carter@feddit.uk 27 points 10 months ago
[–] Nihilore@lemmy.world 26 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Australia checking in, those are definitely a thing here

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[–] IronKrill@lemmy.ca 23 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Cost. The gaps in most NA stalls are so big you will know whether it's occupied anyway just by walking past.

[–] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Was a bit of a shock when I went to Japan and all the stalls are just small rooms within the restroom. It was nice. Bidet game is on point too.

[–] IronKrill@lemmy.ca 9 points 10 months ago

The way it should be 😔

[–] sudafossil@lemmy.ml 6 points 10 months ago

Wait till you see Kansas City airport they have lights outside showing you how many occupied, and lights inside showing you red or green for what's empty full

[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 22 points 10 months ago

Americans, isn't it?

Next they realise that toilets shouldn't have massive gaps around and under the doors.

Y'all are living with prison toilets.

[–] Donebrach@lemmy.world 20 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Uh, like if the door’s closed it’s more than likely occupied.

[–] oohgodyeah@lemmy.world 24 points 10 months ago (9 children)

Useless if the door swings shut by default, likely from poor horizontal alignment.

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[–] danque@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago

You guys don't have an indicator near the door handle?? It's super common in the Netherlands. Almost every toilet has a small indicator, except for maybe some old doors the owners didn't replace, but all else always shows if it's occupied or not (not that people won't try anyway even if red for occupied).

[–] Suru@mander.xyz 17 points 10 months ago (4 children)

I'm genuinely curious to know where in the world you live. I would be horrified if someone was peeking under the stalls or bothering people by knocking on the doors.

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[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 10 points 10 months ago

Land of freedom.

Freedom to poop with a giant gap between the door.

Freedom to piss in a urinal with no divider.

Freedom to wipe with toilet paper so thin, so dainty, that it's practically see through.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

When I frequented small cafés before the epidemic lockdown, it was typical in San Francisco to get frequent impatient door-knockers.

Part of the problem is the lack of publicly available restroom facilities. Shopping malls often might have two restroom pairs, usually at the food court and by the movie theater, and then one each at thr major department stores, typically hidden by the changing rooms.

I cannot say how this compares to other towns or other nations, but designing public lots in The Sims 2, I quickly learned to make sure there were facilities a short walk from everywhere. (Also skip the sinks and install showers, since sims dress and undress with a quick spin)

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[–] Amaltheamannen@lemmy.ml 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I've never seen one without.

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[–] Wazzamatter@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago

TIl us North Americans apparently are the only ones with this problem...

[–] TheSanSabaSongbird@lemdro.id 14 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I just leave the door open, that way everyone knows I'm in there. I even wave at the kids.

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[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 13 points 10 months ago

All the ones I've seen stand open when they're not locked.

[–] andthenthreemore@startrek.website 12 points 10 months ago
[–] JWBananas@startrek.website 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Some do. Most are too cheap to bother.

[–] jonne@infosec.pub 11 points 10 months ago (3 children)

In my experience most do? Maybe the US is different from everywhere else?

[–] Bitrot@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 10 months ago

Probably.

Most stalls are bolted together pieces of cheap metal with the most basic latch you can imagine. If an indicator adds 10 cents to the cost it’s not going to happen.

[–] JWBananas@startrek.website 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The US is cheap. We even famously have large gaps between the door/stall panels. I can only imagine it is to accommodate temperature/humidity changes so that they don't jam.

Nicer places sometimes have actual deadbolt locks connected to a vacant/occupied indicator on the exterior. But it is rare. Usually it's just a gapped stall with a sliding lock that will often not even line up correctly without wiggling the door.

In some instances I have had to use my gym key fob in place of the missing sliding mechanism to secure the door.

[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

It's to shame you out of doing drugs and having sex in the stalls. It doesn't work because people who are going to do that in a public toilet are usually immune to said shame.

[–] locuester@lemmy.zip 4 points 10 months ago

Never seen one in the US. Also in the US, 10% or so don’t even close right. Plus a 30 cm gap on the bottom and a half cm gap on both sides of the door.

It’s only an illusion of privacy; anyone can look through the door or under the stall.

[–] Cringe2793@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Do your toilets not have these things:

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[–] squiblet@kbin.social 7 points 10 months ago

Basically they skimp like mad on this basic infrastructure because they don't care. Whatever companies make the standard shitty metal toilet cubicles in the US have a lot to answer for.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Porta potty doors swing closed automatically, so they need the indicator. In public bathrooms, the doors stay open, so if it's closed it's occupied.

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