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[–] 58008@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago

The moon, or just into space where I can float around and see Earth from a good distance.

Do you remember being a very young kid, of maybe 4 or 5-years-old, and riding your bike without stabilisers for the first time? Riding around your neighbourhood with that feeling of limitless time and seemingly bottomless reservoirs of pure joy? Or the first time you played a video game? Or the first time you went to the cinema? Basically any fun and novel experience. You could almost physically feel the birthing neurons branching through your brain in real-time like orgasmic, electrified roots. The joy of simply having your consciousness come 'online' more and more.

Well, I'm in my early 40s now, and I haven't felt that way since I was that very young child. But I don't think it's because I'm too jaded to enjoy things anymore, it's that I've experienced almost everything there is to experience in a normal everyday life, and there's not much left that is so new and shocking to my consciousness that it will trigger that magical experience again. And so there is no further branching of neurons and no further giddy joy at simply doing something hitherto completely foreign to my brain.

I think visiting space, and especially landing on the moon, would give me that feeling again. It would be the last truly novel experience I definitely have not felt before, and it's not one that I can sorta kinda experience vicariously. I mean, I've never killed anyone, but I know what an abyss of unquenchable guilt feels like, I know what the terror of being caught after doing something bad feels like, I know what it feels like to be so haunted by trauma that I have nightmares about it for years after. So I can just extrapolate from that and get a general idea of what it must be like to have done something that awful. My imagination can conjure up those sorts of ideas if I want it to, and while I won't get 100% of the way there, I can create a ballpark estimation of it. But going into space - leaving everything and everyone who has ever existed behind - and being somewhere so literally alien to my evolved senses, that's not something I can get a handle on just using my imagination.

I could be wrong of course, and going into space might simply be like visiting another country in the shittiest, most cramped Ryanair flight imaginable, but it's the only thing I think has the most chance of giving me one last brain-bukkake before I clock out.

Shame it'll never happen 🤷‍ Maybe I'll start a twitter account sucking Elon's fetid little dick and he'll invite me to use one of his rockets one day. Then while I'm in space, I'll take out a trans flag and play a shitty cover of Nazi Punks Fuck Off à la Chris Hadfield 🫡

[–] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Honestly I wanna do an expedition to the North Pole and see the sun do weird shit. Then treck to the South Pole so I can see the sun do weird shit but backwards. Like I know that sun is a weird freak when it doesn't think you're looking, that's why it does it at the poles. Then along the way from North to south I'll tell people how weird the sun is, and they'll have to believe me because I've been there, and they'll have to say "damn the sun is weird". Sun's going to be so embarrassed when everyone finds out how weird it is.

That or like go to Cancun or something. Anywhere that I can keep track of the sun that twisted freak you aren't fooling me.

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago

Damn we have similar goals but different reasons. I want to have been on all continents and I am obsessed with going to Antarctica. If I had the money, I would want to stand on the planet's axis. And have the whole world actually revolve around me. Doing this on the North Pole too would be great, but it's not a continent and therefore has second place.

And now, can you elaborate the weird stuff the sun does at the poles? Besides polar night and polar day?

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago (5 children)
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[–] 52fighters@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'd buy a small private ship and sail around the globe. I'd occasionally port to pickup a friend or family member or drop someone off.

[–] Jimbabwe@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago

My friend’s uncle lived this life but swap ~~globe~~ to “Lake Travis in Austin, TX” and swap ~~friend or family member~~ to “random babe”

One time, she (my friend), invited us out for a full day on her uncle’s boat and whenever we stopped to gas up, one babe would depart and another would hop on. He also had some kinda magical ice chest that never ran out of beer. Good times.

[–] electric@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago

Never really thought about it. Have always wanted to visit either the French countryside or some picturesque forest in Europe. But someone mentioned trains and unlimited money.

A nice indulgence then would be a luxury train line that navigates throughout most regions of the planet. Probably the most expensive ever done but should be possible. Could probably take years to travel the whole planet in maximum comfort. Wonderful.

Advantages of a vacation train would also be having other people around. One cart per person/family. Not everyone would be in it for the whole ride, so probably lots of passengers changing too. Could have wonderful parties or just group entertainment like movie nights.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I would go visit every single temple and tea house in Japan. As well as try every single unique flavor of KitKat in the country.

[–] RandomVideos@programming.dev 7 points 5 days ago

Space

If money doesnt matter, why not go for the most expensive?

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 days ago

Probably Polynesia.

There are places where you can go and slum it and still have a great time, just visiting free attractions and going everywhere on foot and by pubic transit.
But then there are places where the luxury itself is the attraction, so cheaping out doesn't really make sense.

I can afford to get to Japan and then just stay in cheap hotels and explore local attractions in Kyoto and Tokyo.
I can afford to get to Bora Bora or Tahiti, but I can't afford the luxury stay, which would be the point of the trip.

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

There was a knitting cruise I looked at before. Took you around Europe and had events to spin your own yarn and there would be workshops with masters. I think I would do that.

[–] ChaosCoati@midwest.social 4 points 4 days ago

This sounds amazing!

[–] ArcRay@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 days ago

I'd book a trip on a tall ship. I found one a while back called the Bark Europa. It's one of the few ships that goes to Tristan da Cunha, the most remote civilization in the world.

Its already expensive ($10,000+) and even more expensive if you want to go to the arctic. Unfortunately, I have celiacs, so the only way I'd be able to do it, is if I paid a stupid amount of money.

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago
[–] Only_Game_in_Town@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

To the moon! If money's no object NASAs budget just went up 100 fold.

[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 days ago

I was thinking way too small with my answer. I didn't even consider the idea of telling NASA that I could fund any and every project they want done, if they just send me to the Moon

[–] callyral@pawb.social 2 points 4 days ago

I would go to Freemoneyland and get free money

If money is NO object then I’d buy the US government and make the US visitor friendly. I mean I’d really like to see the pained desert, New Orleans, New York, New England in the fall, hell there’s heaps of the US I’d like to visit and it seams to me that you can buy the US government for a couple of hundred billions.

[–] GoodLuckToFriends@lemmy.today 5 points 5 days ago

Sailboat, Caribbean, and all the food and sunsets in between as long as I can make it last. Maybe I'll end it by heading straight at a hurricane, or maybe I'll just try my luck at getting to Europe. It would be amazing to get to Gibraltar under sail from the Caribbean.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 4 days ago

I'd just rent a cabin in a nearby mountain.

I don't see the appeal in going far away from vacation.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Somewhere tropical, that won't mind if we smoke some weed on the beach. Jamaica comes to mind, but I'd research options because I'd like to see the other side of the Atlantic.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Looking at the Bahamas sometime this year, but my wife needs to secure the time off first. :(

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Iceland. My kid took a geology class and was excited about Iceland. This is actually college: he never got his passport so I said, “sure I’ll take you if you apply for your passport”

[–] Psythik@lemm.ee 4 points 4 days ago

Royal Caribbean cruise on an Icon, Quantum, or Oasis class ship (to the Caribbean, of course).

I don't care how much Lemmy hates cruise ships, nothing beats waking up to a different view out of your balcony every morning. Not to mention the unlimited gourmet food. You could eat a dozen lobster tails in a single sitting if you wanted to.

[–] neomachino@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 4 days ago

Probably any other country where I could get a doctor to take a look at my heart condition without having to take out a loan against my house to pay for it.

[–] higgsboson@dubvee.org 2 points 4 days ago

Alpha Centauri

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