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If not, why haven’t you learned how?

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[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Nope. Couldn't afford lessons, no one had a pool and I lived in a predominantly black city. I'd like to one day just for safely but I usually just sink like a rock.

[–] satans_methpipe@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

How is living in a predominantly black city relevant?

[–] irreticent@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 weeks ago

According to statistics they're less likely to know how to swim. Less swimmers means they'd have less places to swim.

But according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the fatal drowning rate of African-American children aged five-14 is three times that of white children.

A recent study sponsored by USA Swimming uncovered equally stark statistics.

Just under 70% of African-American children surveyed said they had no or low ability to swim. Low ability merely meant they were able to splash around in the shallow end. A further 12% said they could swim but had "taught themselves".

[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

There is a relatively unknown (outside of the black community) bias against swimming. Slaves were traumatized to be hydrophobic to prevent escape from slave ships and then there was segregation of pools until relatively recently. This is fortunately fading now, last I checked.

[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Yeah. Because in Australia they take swimming and water safety very seriously. I don't think I know a single person who can't swim at least a little.

[–] gazter@aussie.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

As an Aussie I remember meeting foreigners when I was a youngster, and just being totally bewildered that they couldn't swim. To me, it was as if they had said they never learnt to run, or how to open a door.

My next lesson came when I took a foreign friend who could swim to the beach. I swam out past the breakers and bobbed around wondering where they were... Turns out that not everyone grew up around waves, and they didn't know you could dive under them. So they were still back by the beach, waist deep, just getting smashed around constantly.

[–] kevincox@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, this is basically how it goes. It depends what country you grew up in. Canada is the same way, almost everyone who grew up in Canada can swim (not necessarily well, but able to manage). This is partly due to the number of lakes that exist near populated areas so swimming is a common passtime and boating accidents are a fairly high cause of accidental death. There are some countries where it is much more rare.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 2 points 3 weeks ago

Yes swimming is a core part of the nz childhood. We had swimming lessons throughout school and my parents enrolled me in swim classes very early.

I'm terrible at formal swimming but I can survive and get around comfortably in the water

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, of course, it's a basic life skill.

[–] ALiteralCabbage@feddit.uk 1 points 3 weeks ago

I couldn't swim until I was maybe 10 or 11 and it was awful. Thankfully my parents moved and my school mandated lessons - but I wasn't confident until maybe my late teens/early twenties?

I think kids should learn as early as possible and it makes me a bit sad that my niece and nephew haven't learned yet (and are unlikely to as their schools don't teach them and my sibling doesn't seem interested in getting them lessons or teaching them). We live on an island with a lot of water inland - it's more important than other stuff like riding a bike!

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I started taking lessons about a year ago. I'm glad I have. At least I feel like I might have a chance if something happens and I end up in deeper water than I can just stand in.

[–] 0ops@lemm.ee 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah but not that well. I can yeet my body off the divingboard something goofy, plunge into the water, and make it back to the edge of the pool, and tbh that's all the swimming ability that I've ever needed. At least I know that I can backstroke fairly effortlessly

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, my mom made us take swim lessons up through lifeguard lessons, and some of my brothers were competitive (like very competitive) swimmers. I got my kids lessons through the drownproofing, not more.

Kids drown here every year, it's not important to have paid lessons but very very important to know how to swim.

[–] EmilyIsTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Nearly everywhere in my country mandates lessons, so yeah

[–] otter@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

How does that work, is it done through school?

There was some discussion about it here (Canada) last summer

https://globalnews.ca/news/10610765/bc-mandatory-swimming-lessons/

[–] urquell@lemm.ee 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes. Am Dutch

[–] bigkahuna1986@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

No, almost drown when I was a kid and have massive panic attacks getting into the water. In the last few years I've been able to get chest deep without hyperventilating but can't really seem to float out anything like that without letting go of the side.

[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 weeks ago

You got that shit if you made it chest high. Keep going!

[–] sylver_dragon@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yup, learned as a child and was absolutely bewildered as a teenager when I met people who couldn't. Made sure my kids knew how as well. Child drowning injury and deaths are sadly high in the US.

[–] lambipapp@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Yes. In sweden every child has been taught to swim for almost 100 years.

[–] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Wow, you have some very old kids πŸ˜΅πŸ˜†

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Look at Sweden, again dunking dunking on the rest of us without even trying. ;-)

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 3 weeks ago

i learned to swim by puking so hard that the puke leaving my mouth propelled me through the water