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I like that the name of the platform has been written over.

"This is only happening locally here at and not at ". And that's happening for every place in the internet.

Marvellous

[–] frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe 5 points 6 days ago

Why do you think you're better than us?

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (3 children)

So you're saying Twitter is better?

/jk

Sure, it happens here, but I feel the toxicity on Lemmy is far less then on Reddit or other platforms, and with toxicity I mean including people assuming you're saying something else because they are triggered somehow. But it's very hard not to stumble upon people like that. Trolls rule the universe, they are everywhere.

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 days ago

I also feel like posts like these are specifically part of the toxicity, encouraging it because "haha funy"

[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It may be less toxic, but that's only if you share the sentiments many lemmy users share. The echo chamber is louder here

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

True. true.. true... true....

But I'm glad I don't have to scroll through loads of right wing extremist posts all the time and constantly have to fight nazis. nazis.. nazis... nazis....

So I'm happy with it. it.. it... it....

Just personally, I find that the toxicity around here just around group think is a little worse than reddit. It's different but it can be a lot worse, especially with the way people on Lemmy use downvotes.

[–] oshu@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I just ignore and block if it continues. I got no time for people who are responding to the voices in their head instead of what I'm actually writing.

[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

On the other hand, a failure to make assumptions about what someone is saying leads to people being able either to willfully misrepresent their positions ("Oh, I don't hate waffles, I just bring up how the world would be better without waffles in every conversation, no matter how tangential!") or unintentionally fail to see the necessary implications of their statements ("I'm not saying waffles are better, I'm just saying pancakes are worse!")

All language has some ambiguity, which necessitates assumption in communication.

[–] tacosanonymous@lemm.ee 66 points 1 week ago (1 children)

And yet, you assumed an image on catbox would work on my device. Interesting.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 48 points 1 week ago (4 children)
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[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 51 points 1 week ago (8 children)

A large portion of the world is experiencing political polarization. I see the same things happening on Lemmy happen on other social media websites.

The “if you don’t agree with me you must have the exact opposite opinion” approach to debate seems to be more a problem of the participants than the platform.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Pretty much every time I dare to say anything negative about Russia or China I'm swarmed with illiterate tankie lemmings who jump into the conclusion that criticising one empire automatically means supporting the other empire.

[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I find that people that do this are often well informed on leftist theory, but know almost no history. I guess it's hard to accept that governing is exceptionally difficult and governments built with the best intentions are still subject to authoritarianism. Also, those governments weren't built with the best intentions, lol.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

wow can’t believe this guy wants me to kiss nazis on the lips /s

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[–] socsa@piefed.social 48 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Me: "I like pancakes"

Lemmy: "Only a shitlib western imperialist would think that. Read more Lenin."

[–] Slovene@feddit.nl 3 points 6 days ago

Nah, that's just .ml

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 19 points 1 week ago

Me: “I like waffles”

Lemmy: “HOW THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO GO MY LIFE WITHOUT PANCAKES YOU OPPRESSIVE INSENSITIVE FUCK”

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[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 46 points 1 week ago (3 children)

-"Russia should not invade a sovereign country, murder its citizens and deport their children."

-"Umm, actually, the US were doing crimes in Syria and you should not support them."

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[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 1 week ago (1 children)

On Lemmy it's more like:

"I don't like pancakes."

"Oh, so I suppose that waffles are perfect huh??"

[–] SuperSaiyanSwag@lemmy.zip 37 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nah, it’s more like “you should delete windows now and get Linux”

[–] pmk@lemmy.sdf.org 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I agree that conversations sometimes end up being about Linux, which is unfortunate. People seldom recommend installing BSD or other free systems, which is a shame. The lesson here is that we should all install OpenBSD.

[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 27 points 1 week ago

Bravery is leaving both the ifunny and imgflip watermarks.

[–] hmonkey@lemy.lol 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I like to insult and block these people. My fear of course, with Lemmy being so small, is I will block everyone. Then again, that's still better than dealing with illiterate, contrarian assholes

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I feel the same way, then I look at my blocklist and it's just lemmy.ml, anime subs, 3 people, some political terms, and a bot. I also have a .world account I use when I want to view the whole Lemmy experience anyways. Tbh I still feel kinda bad about blocking .ml, there was some cool peeps on there but I just can't deal with all the tankie drama

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[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 17 points 1 week ago (5 children)

This is anywhere on the internet.

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[–] renrenPDX@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 week ago (20 children)

What…. This is on par with any kind of internet discourse. It’s pretty much why I hardly ever post prior to Lemmy. It doesn’t matter how well articulated the post, SOMEONE will find the need to correct or clarify unnecessarily.

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[–] Jomega@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (8 children)

One time I said AI porn was unethical (because it is) and people here thought I was calling for a ban on all porn. At no point did I say that porn was unethical as a rule, and if I did believe that I wouldn't have mentioned AI at all.

[–] frezik@midwest.social 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It'd be nice if we could regulate porn in good faith. Every attempt to regulate it in the US has been an obvious attempt to shut it down, but it should be regulated like anything else. Sex toys, too. Lots of questionable substances are used in sex toys that probably shouldn't be inserted into the human body.

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[–] RaoulDook@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Yep that's one of my pet peeves about the Internet. People love to try to put words in your mouth. It gets a bit tiring having to tell every one of those jabronis that I never said any of those words, and they should re-read what I did actually write instead.

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[–] JayDee@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

TBF, I understand this annoying kind of 'reading into it'. at the same time, if someone starts dropping dogwhistles or starts dancing around something in a convo, i am definitely gonna read into that shit.

[–] prex@aussie.zone 1 points 6 days ago

I hate the way Nazis etc have appropriated to many phrases/actions as dog whistles.
I don't want to offend anyone & I certainly don't support intolerence but sometimes it's just too much to keep up with.
If someone politely points out my mistake they are helping, if they attack me for an honest mistake they are not.

Am I right or:

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[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

In my experience, this happens way less on Lemmy than on Reddit before the IPO.

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[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

That’s French toast erasure.

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