I don't judge others based on their slave~~r~~ records.
this post was submitted on 01 Oct 2024
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You wouldn’t judge someone who owns slaves?
If prison is modern day slavery, and judges send people to prison, then wouldn't judges be the ones to judge about judging slaves?
good catch... that's a typo
I'm 38 and I've had about half of that, but the vast majority was from 16-25. They were all shitty retail things or short term odd job type things, but work is work so I include them if someone asks how many jobs I've had except on a resume of course. I just stick to relevant things there.
I've done everything from retail, to refrigeration diagnostic work. From wiping ass and giving meds, to even being a carnie. The only type of jobs I've never had are "real people jobs" like office work. I'm just a subhuman meat machine.
There's not enough context here to have a strong opinion, but I'll add that personally, nothing has given me a bigger raise than getting a job at another company.
Depends on the job, but it would be a red flag for my career as projects usually last for at least a year.
Gen-X in tech here. When I was about to enter the workforce we were told that having multiple jobs in our resume or showing that we stayed at a job less than five years was really bad and would make us difficult to hire because it showed that we couldn't be depended on.
Fuck that!
I switched jobs all the time as I chased higher salaries and bigger benefits. If they wanted my skills they needed to pay me AND they needed to guarantee me at least two off-site training programs per year. All that training and experience in different technologies and environments made me more and more valuable until my only option was to go into consulting so that multiple clients could benefit at once and none need to commit to paying me beyond the scope of their project.
That's the right mindset.
For those reading, don't let them fool you about down selling your worth. If you've got the skills they want, and you show that, they'll pay you. Job history conversations are just a way to try and leverage lower pay or benefits on you.
Up until like 2022, changing your job every one and a half to three years was the best way to increase your base salary and total lifetime income.
I've changed jobs every 3ish years for the last 12 years and when I started I was making $15 an hour and now I'm making $67 an hour.
My friend who I met at the $15 an hour job has only changed jobs every 7 years, he's now making $27 an hour.
We have similar skill sets and graduated from the same college except he was 2 years ahead of me, although, I did move to a higher cost of living area which is probably good for like $20 of the difference.
Not my problem, tell me more
Depending on the details, either "holy fuck that'sbadman" or "holy fuck rich".
Depends entirely on what the job is.
Is the 42 year old a welder? Then 48 different jobs might mean they're in super high demand and contract out to high paying, low time frame jobs.
Is the 42 year old a cop or a priest? Probably skips town a lot for... reasons...
Most any other job might just mean they've had an interesting life and like to try new things. Their broad experience might mean they're great for what they're currently doing.
Even if he's a coder I wouldn't be surprised. Also I spent 5 years as a consultant and worked fot 1 company in about 10 diferent companies doing different things, is that 10 differenr jobs?!
I would ask follow up questions to his statement
Did you switch the keycaps for your r's and t's?
Tbf it's very hard to type on my phone. The keyboard is tiny and I always make mistakes. I don't even care anymore lol
besides I'm old and typing in my bed at night I can't see much haha
"Cool, tell me about them. Sounds like an interesting life."
why would i need an opinion on that?
If I'm a coworker in this situation I don't care. If I'm a manager in this situation I just don't bother training them on anything but the basics for the job.
The weird thing is "confessing" about it no?
Yeah that's a lot of information framing.
Make friends with the guy. He's got some some stories. True or not, he's got some stories.
What's wrong with that? If you only find 3 months jobs you end up that way. And if you sprinkle some 1 week jobs the count rises very fast.
That the person probably won't stick around for long. I'd still give them a fair chance, but if they up and quit one day out of nowhere I wouldn't be surprised. I'm not in charge of the hiring though, so I just work with whoever I'm told to work with.
Just work your shift
I've had 50. It depends on the person and the jobs.
Some jobs are minimum wage BS jobs that people are doing just to stay alive, if you burn out on a BS job in 6 weeks that's nothing to be ashamed of.
I also typically have worked multiple jobs at the same time. I've had two full-time jobs and a part-time job while going to school and not sleeping for more than 5 hours a night for like 9 months.
Are you going to hold that against me, or does it show that I have the drive and initiative to accomplish my goals no matter how difficult they may be?
Sure, I bounced between jobs a lot when I was in my teenage years and my early twenties, but once I hit college and built a career and my employment history has been Rock fucking solid, typically 3+ years between job changes.
I would say that my last 14 years of employment weighs a lot more heavily than my first 5 years of employment.
I don’t correlate much from job count. I have had 5 in the last 8 years, two of those following layoffs. Shit happens.
Lol shit happens when something unexpected happens. Usually when it is also something out of one's conteol. 40+ occurances is not "shit happens."
But like a bunch of people already stated there is barely enough info to even speculate off of nuch less have an opinion of.
My opinion is only that I'm not going to get attached, guy's probably not going to be here long. That's all.
Maybe he worked a few years at a temp agency?
I would assume they were exaggerating and/or were a consultant at some point.
Could be gig jobs as well. With seasonal work you can easily get four jobs or more in a year without even doing anything unusual.
You're right. Here in 2024 your version is more likely than mine.
Let's judge him for doing something different, while being too afraid of doing the same.
I’d say it is none of my business what they did for employment prior to where they are now and stay out of their life.
That's going to depend a lot on context. Did he travel the world for five years, working a different temporary job at each stop? Or did he repeatedly get fired for pissing in the boss' in-tray?
By that age, I was into my third long-term job (> 5 years) and had had upwards of 16 short term ones - multiple part time ones at once, or some just for a few weeks or a couple of months here and there between the long-term ones etc.
48 doesn't seem that unlikely - nor even an indicator that they will not be staying put for any length of time unless your job is a shitty one with a high turnover anyway.
Around here, it would be a super red flag.
Such short time employments are extremely rare and uncommon.
It would mean that either he has been fired ungracefully so many times, or he does never like what he's doing and therefore quits very soon.
It could also mean that they started young, perhaps babysitting, dog-walking, or delivering papers. It also could mean that they've worked multiple jobs at the same time: in college, I worked two full-time and one part-time job in addition to classes, which ramped up my job numbers noticably.
Rookie numbers. Gotta pump those numbers up!
Impressive. I'm only up to a dozen or so, would be more, but Verizon was worth sticking around for 10 years. Other than that, my record is two or three years.
Huh....I'm up to 15 jobs at 44. Really happy with my current so hopefully will be here a while.
Same. Took a while to find something I didn't hate, but I'd love to stay here until I can retire at 95!
Nice to meet you, Mark. What’s the longest you’ve stayed at any one job, Mike? So tell me, Matt, do you have any friends from previous jobs, or just forget their names?
My DIL had at least that many by age 26. Now she makes more than i do, so... 🤷
Ask the boss if we can draw for Secret Santa early this year and cheat so I get his name.
"ok"
Though, as with everything, it depends. The amount of jobs isn't important. It's how they actually performed at those jobs that does. Though, this is from an employee perspective. As an employer it's almost hard to bother with that type of worker unless it's only for a temp job of sorts.
Depending on the details, either "holy fuck that'sbadman" or "holy fuck rich".
Depending on the details, either "holy fuck that'sbadman" or "holy fuck rich".
Depending on the details, either "holy fuck that'sbadman" or "holy fuck rich".
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