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For me, I'm nearly 40 and I really love Avatar the last Airbender, reading YA novels, and sometimes I make pasta with fun shapes, just because I can.

What do you enjoy?

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[–] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Every so often I still indulge in the "don't step on the cracks" game while walking along the street :-)

[–] blackdragoness@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I literally did this just yesterday walking to the car from work. Then I had to figure out what actually constitutes as a "crack" and what is just a "purposeful indent' in the sidewalk. I decided that the indents that separate the squares in the sidewalk do not actually count as cracks and its ok to step on those.

[–] SilentStorms@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Yes, but you're liable to break your dad's spine that way.

[–] rubbs@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago
[–] spicy_biscuits@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

It's a habit at this point. Mentally I know it won't break my mama's back, but emotionally... emotionally, I -have- to step over it πŸ˜…

Gotta protect your momma's back!

[–] Thaliff@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Pretending to use The Force to open automatic doors.

[–] DJDarren@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Oh, it isn’t just me then…

[–] Mintyytea@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

I love avatar the last airbender too. I haven’t found a show like it since. Besides that, I still like anime (though less nowadays because of some sexist parts)

[–] iliketurtles@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

sound effects with my mouth....engine noises, explosions, etc

[–] Chetzemoka@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Riding on the shopping cart like a scooter

[–] rubbs@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes! I get many looks. Here's a late-thirties man with a bald head, gleefully grinning like a maniac while careening wildly down the parking lot aisle on a squeaky four-wheeled vehicle meant for vittles.

[–] shapesandstuff@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

Late 20s here, same!

[–] melonpunk@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Switching song lyrics for immature lines.

[–] rubbs@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

Jingle bells, Batman smells...

[–] Stiqy@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] pumpkin@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

I like banana flavoured milk too

[–] Binzy_Boi@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I was really bummed out when I developed lactose intolerance, but I was shocked by how good the Silk Dark Chocolate soy one was.

Also found some brands sell it lactose free here, but unfortunately they're harder to come across in stores.

[–] stabby_birdu@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Cartoons/ animation. I'll never grow out of it.

[–] LemmyAtem@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Jumping in puddles. I almost never get the chance anymore, but if I have boots on and there's a puddle YOU BEST BE PREPARED

[–] rubbs@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yes. I can get behind this.

[–] Linnce@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Sleeping with a teddy bear

[–] instamat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I vaguely recall an article linked on the SITE THAT SHALL NOT BE NAMED that something like 40% of adults sleep with a stuffed animal or comfort object

[–] stephfinitely@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Nothing wrong with sleeping with stuff animals.

[–] Binzy_Boi@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I should probably get one seeing how I often end up just hugging the blanket when I sleep.

[–] Binzy_Boi@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I've been thinking about getting some stuff from my childhood again. I recently watched We're Back on YouTube and while the movie is not great, it has a great charm, which has been making me think of getting the VHS tapes I used to have as a kid.

Aside from that movie, I'm also thinking of getting The Brave Little Toaster Goes to Mars, Anastasia, The Jungle Book, and Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs.

[–] PonceDeLeon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I enjoy shirking my responsibilities and doing nothing, if I can help it.

[–] spicy_biscuits@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

πŸ˜… Coloring books. Dino nuggies. Chocolate milk. Cartoons. Plushies. Fairy tales.

Also, ATLA is amazing no matter what age you are 🀩

[–] dethleffs@feddit.nl 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You're all just being human. You're not childish, just being human.

[–] MrTHXcertified@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Dino shaped chicken nuggets

  • Magic School Bus. To this day there are a dozen episodes that cross my mind all the time.
  • What my father calls "crap pasta" β€” animal or cartoon shaped noodles in a sauce that's 40% salt.

I thought there would be more, but nothing else is coming to mind.

[–] bardm@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Got into Lego again a few years ago. It definitely has changed a lot since I was a kid in the previous millennium.

[–] awsamation@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I also got back into Lego. I'm early 20s, so the sets of my childhood weren't that different from what's being made now.

But it is cool to finally have the Death Star and Millennium Falcon like middle school me fantasized about.

[–] rodhlann@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Skipping rocks. If I'm near a body of water and there's a flat stone anywhere near me in 100% skipping that thing. This never gets old

[–] L0Wigh@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Doing engine sound with my mouth

[–] ArugulaZ@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I'm quite childish. Still play video games, still watch cartoons more than live-action shows, still eat (now sugar-free) candy. What's going to happen? Are the grown-up police going to break into my house and demand that I turn in my adulting license and my pubes?

[–] marshadow@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

I am a 38-year-old adult and I love Tamagotchis. Also Pokemon, anime, comic books, stickers, sitting on the floor, and using the shower wand as a microphone.

[–] yProwler@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

My son bought me a flamingo squishmallow and it’s the best!! Also, PokΓ©mon Go

[–] TimesEcho@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

There's a distinction between child-ish and child-like. So far I haven't seen anyone say they enjoy anything child-ish (except maybe alternative song lyrics?), but all the lovely child-like responses warm my heart. I eat "sugar cereal" for dessert. Because I'm an adult and I can. Also, I make up silly songs all the time and talk to myself and my cats in silly voices.

[–] QuentinP@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Minecraft, though i'd like to see a child tangle with GregTech xD

Taking things apart and then ruining them. Had my girlfriends oldtimer out for a year because of that. Fixed it but she never looked at me the same way again. Hahaha

[–] SlowNPC@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Blowing on dandelions and watching the seeds float away.

Responsible adults don't propagate weeds.

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Coloring. I don't do it very often, but I always feel better after I do. Apparently it's a recommended activity for mental health: Mayo Clinic: Coloring is good for your health

I make a distinction between childish and child-like or simply the things from childhood. This isn't pedantry, it just serves to illustrate a way of thinking for me that's tangential to the question.

But, a lot actually. It is very unusual for me to not enjoy the things I enjoyed as a kid, and it is almost as uncommon that I reject new things that are for kids just because I'm an adult.

But yeah, I still play with Legos (as opposed to building kits). I finger paint (though I call it working primitive to the art snobs lol). I still watch some cartoons, and I still enjoy the ones I don't watch when they happen to be on.

Joy is a thing that should be cherished while it exists. It, like all things, is ephemeral, so if something that brings it is deemed for kids, I refuse to reject it solely because of age.

It's kinda sad at times though. My niece and my kid used to finger paint with me. Now they're too old for it in their heads, and I miss having that fun with them. The kind of silly play we used to do has been replaced with more structured activity, though there's still play and joy in it (even the knife fighting and general unarmed combat I'm teaching my kid and some others lol).

Retaining that sense of joy, cherishing it when it comes and being able to let it go when it moves on is essential to life.

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