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The social contract, and the knowledge that it isn't acceptable and any women inside would likely scream and the man would be perceived as an attempted rapist and would face consequences.
In my experience what happens is you look at each other confusedly for a moment, wondering who is in the wrong restroom. Then you realise there are no urinals so it's probably the women's restroom. Then the man leaves a bit embarrassed. Source: Happened to me at least twice (once the signs were really unclear).
Happened to me once as the woman. Poor guy was so embarrassed and apologetic.
Rapists, well known followers of social contract who only do things that are acceptable...
It's not concerning at all that this didn't seem immensely silly and wrong when you typed it...
Because if a bathroom allows trans women, women will then be unable to scream while facing an attempted rape?
Are you advocating that any man who even accidentally enters a woman's restroom startling a woman be declared an attempted rapists?
Otherwise, they will be considered an attempted rapist whether trans and allowed in the bathroom or not...when they start doing the attempted rape...
So, no. I don't think a rapist cares much if they're perceived as a rapist. And a lot of (maybe most?) rapists know that they probably won't be convicted even if caught.
None of those things prevented rapists from entering bathrooms before.