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A genie appears before you and says you must choose to be very physically attractive, but slightly below average intelligence, or very intelligent, but slightly below average attractiveness? Which would you choose, and why?

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[โ€“] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Smart. Pretty, dumb people get taken advantage of. Besides, I'm already unattractive, might as well give me something after making me go through high school ๐Ÿ˜’

[โ€“] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I mean slightly below average is not bad attractiveness wise. Less hassel to some degree, especially if your a woman. below average intelligence though can really hamstring you. Intelligence all the way. Doesn't say gorgeous though or genius. sounds to me like I would basically be asking for the genie to do nothing based on my academic achievements and dating lack of achievements.

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[โ€“] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 6 points 2 days ago

Beauty I guess, intelligence doesn't make a damn unless you're brave, lucky, or born well

[โ€“] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Probably smart, because I'm already pretty smart and the prospect of giving up what I already have seems scary.

Plus, I've lived most of my life thinking I was repulsively ugly; part of overcoming that anxiety involved understanding that "you can be the juiciest, ripest peach in the world, but some people just don't like peaches". If there's anything I've learned from that, it's understanding that attractiveness is even harder to "objectively" quantify than intelligence

[โ€“] refalo@programming.dev 3 points 2 days ago

I would rather be beautiful because then I wouldn't realize everyone else around me is so unfathomably stupid.

[โ€“] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Long Covid and Myalgic Encephalomyelitis have noticeably lowered my IQ. It's a terrible feeling to be more stupid and know that I normally could do better.

So give me intelligence every day. Physical attractiveness can only go so far.

I feel this to my core. I had a pretty successful career in army special operations, which ended after ten years with a few years of extremely heavy drinking, which ended with me getting out of the army and getting boatloads of mental health treatment, which is ongoing.

When I was at my peak, though, my most prize characteristic was my intellect. Now, though, my short term memory is measured in seconds, my working memory is like five digits at most, I forget words many times per day, and there's many more examples.

It's been absolutely crushing to remember such high performance, but be incapable of it now.

[โ€“] brokenlcd@feddit.it 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm studying engineering, so i'll take smarts, we all know that anyone in this field ends up bald by some mystical force anyways

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[โ€“] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Why am I forced to downgrade if it's a genie wish?

[โ€“] Anticorp@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Sometimes it do be like that.

It's an ifrit

[โ€“] wildcardology@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I'm an introvert so I'm going for very intelligent.

[โ€“] communism@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If I'm that smart maybe I can work out how to make myself beautiful too.

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[โ€“] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

You could be Hermann Rorschach or Hedy Lamarr, and be both!

[โ€“] arken@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Brad Pitt was one of the first people to try the time travel machine invented in 2030; however when attempting to make a career by introducing 21st century technology in the early 1900s, the only thing he could manage to reproduce was ink blots and folding paper.

[โ€“] jsomae@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago

That guy really looks like Bradd Pitt

[โ€“] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 2 days ago

Hermann looks like a Hollywood actor

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[โ€“] Azzu@lemm.ee 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If I'm very smart, I could just use my intelligence to make money and then get beauty surgery.

That's not how any of that works.

[โ€“] stinky@redlemmy.com 6 points 3 days ago

i'm already dumb and cute, take a hike genie

[โ€“] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 3 days ago
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