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I’ve been on lemmy for over a year now, and I just realized I used to read all those HackerNews articles + their comments, I haven’t done that in probably 6 months because the discussion here has gotten much better. What’s changed for you with Lemmy over the last year?

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[–] Sir_Premiumhengst@lemmy.world 67 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Started to participate in discussion more and pleasantly surprised actual conversations happen and the comment section is not flooded with generic bot shit within minutes.

[–] Today@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When I first came here, I was so jaded, with the expectation that every account was a bot or an asshole. Seeing the actual conversation among humans has been nice.

Absolutely. The jadedness coming off of reddit is real. Took me half a year to slowly start participating

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's something I really like about Lemmy. You can have actual conversations. On Reddit, on even an unpopular thread, any comment would be flooded by replies from other people. You couldn't just talk with one person.

I don't mind other people joining in, but reddit makes it impossible to do 1-on-1.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

On Reddit, on even an unpopular thread, any comment would be flooded by replies from other people.

Lemmy really does give the feel of "early reddit" where it was small enough for real communities, where you would recognize regulars and see them in multiple subs.

Agreed. Oftentimes I describe Lemmy as "reddit back in the day" whenever someone asks me wtf is Lemmy.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 39 points 1 week ago (6 children)

In my view, Lemmy ecospace became a lot more dark. People are snarkier, less prone to engage in polite conversation and divergent opinions get hounded.

I also sense an increased tendency for doom and gloom. Nihilism is on the rise, as well.

[–] coaxil@lemm.ee 22 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Would you say the doom and gloom is Lemmy specific, or more of a global thing, given the state of life ATM?

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm only on Lemmy. Can't speak for other places. On my day to day life, people are concerned with living their lives.

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[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

less prone to engage in polite conversation

What the fuck did you just say to me, you little shit lemming? I'll have you know that I graduated top of my class in online forum debates...

/jk

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 week ago

Yeah, yeah, yeah... and Happy New Year!

[–] TisI@reddthat.com 8 points 1 week ago

That's interesting because for me it's the opposite, or maybe I just don't notice it anymore. But when I first joined people were almost always hostile to one another. I feel like that's not the case anymore.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Among American users, this probably has a lot to do with the recent election.

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[–] soloner@lemmy.world 29 points 1 week ago (7 children)

A lot more comments like reddit that are the quick (very tired) zingers. I was happy to get away from that but I'm sort of thinking of putting lemmy down if it gets worse.

I don't need your "this." Or "broken arms" or "that's insulting to trash" etc.

It's beyond tired. But it gets up voted and can dominate the comments section. I appreciate threads like this one that promote actual discussion.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I feel that, too, but also...

There's a large number of news articles that it feels literally pointless to respond to with anything other than jokey derision because it feels like we've been talking to people about those issues for two decades (or more for some of us) and no one listened.

So, with a lot of it... what is there even to talk about anymore and instead crack jokes to try to feel less dead inside?

I fully agree, but at the same time find myself making jokey throwaway comments on the millionth thread about "turns out Trump was lying about his campaign promises!!!!" as if anyone with a fucking brain couldn't figure that out since at least 2015. It just feels pointless to engage with beyond comedy when the media continues to sanewash that guy.

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[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lemmy is teaching me things by accident.

Most recently; I've started learning media literacy and now I can see all the same manufactured consent and narrative shaping that exists in legacy media and social media like Facebook and reddit; but in .world and lemmee too

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 week ago (4 children)
[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I wish the .worlders & lemmee's would open up a book to learn this for themselves.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

Yea... 🫠

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[–] z3rOR0ne@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lemmy has become my main social media outlet. For better or worse, Lemmy's just my kind of place. I'm off of all mainstream social media except LinkedIn, which I barely use, but keep around for work related reasons.

I do still peruse Reddit, mainly for TV shows and niche subjects I can't find here. But I haven't logged in or posted since the first major exodus over the API pricing, and have no plans of returning.

I do post on Mastodon from time to time, but the format is just too geared towards short form content, and ultimately just isn't my cup of tea.

So yeah. I'm generally happy to be here with you all shooting the shit about politics, Linux, etc. Long live Lemmy!

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[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 week ago

It’s actually had content for me now

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's become clear that Lemmy is not about to take off. For most users, it's probably a fine Reddit clone, but it's not about to replace the big R.

I'm sure that will change in 2025. 🧌

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I suppliment Lemmy with Imgur. That said, Imgur also forces you to use their offical app, and it also sells your data to 3rd parties, like most apps. But it's not nearly as shit as the offical reddit app, and you can always block the trackers with the DuckDuckGo app.

I still don't have a replacement for niche subreddits, though. So I only visit them on the desktop now to minimize that time on the site, and so I can use old.reddit.com.

I dream of the day when I can finally ditch both for good and just use Lemmy.

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[–] datavoid@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (17 children)

Starting to see different people reposting stuff on similar communities, which reminds me a lot of that other site. Not a huge fan.

I've also started noticing people downvoting instead of engaging when they disagree with something as well, which is frustrating.

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[–] devfuuu@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

More content and more comments. I basically only use mastodon and lemmy for my memes nowadays and as general social media.

[–] GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 week ago (6 children)

My participation has dropped a lot compared to when I only just joined. There is only so much us centric doomer content I can stomach, and Lemmy is so extremely political that it is impossible to just browse cat memes and have a good time. So I spend less time here I suppose.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 13 points 1 week ago

I almost never see political content or cat memes. I think your experience comes down to your subscription list.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I just block those that post that stuff. Lemmy is small enough that that works to a sufficient degree πŸ‘ it's a small group of prolific posters

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[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

All of the "a vote for Kamala is a vote for genocide" spammers mysteriously disappeared

Edit: my point is that they seem awfully quiet about Trump

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I mean, the vote happened and she's not running anymore, sooooooo not really a reason for them to keep talking about that issue?

Also, I remember a couple usernames from some of the most vocal and I just went and looked and it's not like they up and deleted their accounts or stopped using Lemmy. They're still active, so they didn't "disappear."

@queermunist@lemmy.ml was pretty loud about that opinion and they're still here, for example.

I know reddit being flooded with bots for 10 years has made y'all jaded but real people with real opinions that differ from ours shockingly still exist.

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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 week ago

I will

NEVER

log off!

[–] Xiisadaddy@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 week ago

Idk if you maybe missed the news but the election ended. Like awhile ago.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago

The election ended, the Leftists are still here. What were you expecting to happen?

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 week ago

Is this a joke? They didn’t leave, the election cycle did.

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[–] hansolo@lemm.ee 13 points 1 week ago

Well, I'm here now. So there's that.

You're welcome. /s

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago

With the end of the US election, there has been a bit of an ideological demographic shift, but more of a strong wind than a foundational upset.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 week ago

It seems more active now. Which has been great!

[–] mesamunefire@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

The cell phone apps are a lot better nowadays. They look a lot better.

I've been posting more fedi content instead of just the popular links.

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I see a lot less but muh Media Bias/Fact Check now than I did a year ago.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I feel like there's less Canadian content. After the Reddit API Exodus, there was a fair bit, but that dropped off.

[–] digdilem@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 week ago

I think a lot of people have gone back to Reddit.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 9 points 1 week ago

Not enough jeans. :(

Real answer: there's been an uptick in the amount of content lately, which is great. I've also unfortunately noticed an uptick in belligerent comments, which often detracts from the conversations taking place.

[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I got banned from the Canada community and according to the mod log, it was for homophobia and bigotry.

That really rubs me the wrong way because I’ve never ever posted anything like that. I’ve been the subject of homophobic and bigotry based bullying my whole life and the only comment I posted on that topic there was an account of my first hand experience of being catfished on Grindr and then outed as bi on the towns facebook page and subjected to ridicule and harassment.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I mean the nice thing about Lemmy is you can always create your own community, and if that's not enough, your own instance.

It removes a bad mods ability to completely dominate, because there's always an escape hatch for folks who are just done with their shit.

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[–] FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

People here have gotten progressively meaner and I am seeing more and more AI slop. Also the quality of memes have fallen off a fucking cliff in all meme communities.

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