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Man you have 6 days old account. I had to deal with one comment as a mod, I checked the account (for other posts and comments), saw that it is exeption and just deleted it.

If I saw few days old account I would just ban it.

haha mahn your sex life must suck if you think its unskilled. hilarious

“sex work” is an unskilled job.

I can't believe I'm having to suggest this to someone... please actually go visit a brothel. Vanilla sex between couples are usually more passion focused so they won't have to give much attention on any particular sex move.

Sex workers however have to use their finesse to satisfy you because there was never any attraction or intimacy between either of you thus no passion to excite either of you. Just ask them to take the lead and find out.

Reactionary:relating to, marked by, or favoring reaction especially : ultraconservative in politics

Your takes are reactionary in a sociopolitical lens. Words can have more than one meaning.

I wouldn't call it "reactionary", but I also wouldn't define sex work as "unskilled".

If you've never had bad sex, I'm happy for you. But bad sex workers aren't going to get far. :)

I'm not sure if the reason fits the definition of reactionary, but that is a pretty awful take, which is at the least wildly ignorant, and at worst, trolling.

I mean, I don't think what you said is ban worthy, but I understand why someone would.

Also, anyone can go bowling. Anyone can fuck. But just like bowling, if you're doing it professionally, you have to be good.

Also, sex work isn't just having sex transactionally, it's shooting porn, writing erotica, drawing hentai, etc, and they all take a lot of skill too.

In trying to understand "the rules", you are attempting to understand human nature. In the fediverse there are no "rules", there isn't a governing body, instance owners and moderators essentially have "root" permissions.

Some use those for the greater good, some don't. Some react in ways that are unexpected and unfamiliar.

In other words, be kind to your community and find a place where you can enjoy yourself. Don't fret about the things that you cannot control.

If you absolutely need an answer, set up your own instance and be your own boss.

In the meantime, have fun.

Hmm. Maybe send the mod in question a DM?

And are you permabanned? Or just for a few hours? If it's just that, take the timeout.

Not a clue. But there's plenty of other communities on Lemmy who would appreciate your participation!