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[–] Wojwo@lemmy.ml 12 points 6 months ago (5 children)
[–] 0_0j@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

It's official

[–] Khrux@ttrpg.network 1 points 6 months ago

This is my favourite, it's a little cheesy and fun, but it doesn't have my biggest issue with the Reddit one which is for some reason acting like it's a birthday party.

This feels like the natural choice doesn't it?

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 6 months ago

Aight we need to open a ticket on github.

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It should be software independent. Not referring to a specific Fediverse app, but general across the Fediverse. I don't think this fits.

[–] averyminya@beehaw.org 2 points 6 months ago

So the fediversary lol

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 11 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Honestly I was praying that Lemmy dispensed with that reddit-ism

I found the whole 'cake day' thing on Reddit a bit immature myself, kind of like a stale remnant from the excitement and exuberance of the internet before it was dominated by a few massive companies.

By the time i left reddit my feelings towards those traditions were like yours. They seemed a bit hollow, over-egged.

Times have changed, Lemmy and its user-base are a reaction to the dominant internet campanies. With that i'd hope we can be more thoughtful about building an online experience thats healthy and sober.

To that point, i think marking an anniversary has a certain importance. I'd hope on Lemmy this kind of thing is approached with a more subtle maturity though.

But at the end of the day, what one person takes away from text, and what another person takes away from the same text can be surprisingly different. So maybe I just read all those cake day messages in the wrong light.

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Aww I think it's kinda cute.

[–] pelletbucket@lemm.ee 0 points 5 months ago

i fucking hate it.

[–] modest_bunny@lemm.ee 11 points 6 months ago

could not give a f*k about what day i created my account

[–] charonn0@startrek.website 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Annual commemorative pastry observance

[–] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago

Is it necessary to have this ? does it have any significance ?

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] proctonaut@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

SoufflΓ©mmy

[–] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago
[–] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago

Our cake day

[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I vote Lemmy Bombeday

[–] cerement@slrpnk.net 1 points 6 months ago (2 children)

according to your profile, it’s still called β€œCake day”

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I've been using a mobile app for so long that I didn't notice that.

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 0 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I really hate using that term. It's very Reddit.

[–] toastal@lemmy.ml 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Not if we liberate it from them

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 6 months ago

Everything about lemmy is. It is literally a reddit clone.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today -1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I also dislike it because reddit used it... They managed to destroy a lot of good things.

[–] Zeroxxx@lemmy.id 0 points 6 months ago

It was their creation to begin with, for free. Stop crying about reddit and move on.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 1 points 6 months ago

Yep, cake day

[–] JustEnoughDucks@feddit.nl 1 points 6 months ago (3 children)
[–] BruceTwarzen@kbin.social 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

We gotta make everything reddit. What does the narwhal bacon here? I vote opossum and curry. Is that le random enough?

[–] Dippy@beehaw.org 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

is that le random enough? <

Do you always get mad when other people try to have fun?

[–] swab148@startrek.website 1 points 6 months ago

I also choose this guy's dead soul

It doesn't, but I do think we should be happy folks are sticking around. I'm almost at one year!

[–] thetreesaysbark@sh.itjust.works -1 points 6 months ago

Jeez man it's just some light hearted fun.

[–] Resol@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

I don't even celebrate my birthday, because... I never needed to, so likewise I don't celebrate Cake Day either.

I'd rather just have a few brownie pieces with my coffee in the morning.

But if you insist... um... "Lemmydag"? (The final syllable is pronounced "dach" like in Dutch)

[–] yuri@pawb.social 0 points 6 months ago

petition to just call it a birthday and let it be confusing

[–] trk@aussie.zone 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Lamington Day

Cause Lemmyington.

This probably works better with a New Zealand accent... which I don't have, but like to imitate when I'm drunk.

"Choice bro, put your jandals in the chilly bin" - me, doing champagne comedy sketches