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[–] ptz@dubvee.org 24 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Pets and PTSD aside, I just get sick of hearing the goddamned things go off every 5 minutes until 3 am every fucking day from June thru August.

Be a good fucking neighbor for fuck's fucking sake. Put on a good show on the 4th, clap for the boom booms, and then stop. Some people have jobs and need sleep. Otherwise we might get cranky.

That is how we do it. One big night, see you back in a year.

This! I have PTSD and have a difficult time with the 4th. But, I would be fine if it was just on the 4th but that's never the case. The last complex I lived in had kids that would set them off in the middle of the day to purposefully scare people.

[–] TrinityTek@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Everyone commenting seems to be missing your point. Regardless how people feel about pets and fireworks, people should be aware that the 4th of July revelry can be extremely difficult for some veterans suffering from PTSD. There's one I know personally who was in combat in Iraq and saw really terrible things. You can tell talking to him it deeply effects him to this day. I think of it a lot when I hear illegal fireworks. At least with the official fireworks shows they know when to expect it. The illegal fireworks are just random out of the blue and could easily trigger a PTSD episode. Maybe the guy in the screenshot talking about patriotism should consider that.

[–] BaldProphet@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Plenty of legal fireworks can do this too.

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[–] lemmy@lemmy.quad442.com 16 points 1 year ago (26 children)

As a Veteran who has PTSD and does not do well on 4th of July. I fought for people's freedom. Let them enjoy their fireworks and I'll stay on my farm fat away taking care of my turkeys who also hate fireworks.

[–] phx@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I never really thought about farm animals and fireworks. How about chickens/horses/etc?

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[–] Draedron@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Who had their freedom threatened?

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[–] fubbernuckin@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I mean valid point about ptsd but also that's not what they're talking about.

[–] squaresinger@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Over here in Central Europe, the fourth of July is obviously not a thing. Our fireworks day is the night between the last and the first day of the year.

Over the last few years it got restriceted more and more and now many cities prohibit private fireworks completely and instead put on a professional show in a few places. It's so much better now in basically every aspect.

I mean, who thought that giving drunk people explosives on a massive scale would be a good idea?

[–] ThePantser@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I mean, who thought that giving drunk people explosives on a massive scale would be a good idea?

Same ones that handed them guns as a right, speaking as a US Citizen I really hate that right.

[–] Astronaut_M_Dexter@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's not so much the right itself, just the batshit crazy interpretation of it and our collective gun fetish culture. The nutjobs zero in on the "shall not be infringed" part completely ignoring the "well regulated" part that comes before that. *sigh*

[–] TheCraiggers@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

To be fair, the "well regulated" part is talking about the militia, not guns in general. Although I'm not a 17th century lawyer so maybe I'm reading it wrong.

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[–] AbsurdityAccelerator@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Firework use is prohibited where I live, but the sale is allowed. I hate it so damn much. Maybe I just getting old, but any kind of noise pollution drives me up the wall these day. I get pissed at my neighbour's Corvette that he insists of revving at 5am almost daily.

[–] szczur@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Oh I get that. I'm living in the city centre in one of Poland's major cities and assholes with motorbikes and sportscars are literally revving the engine ALL. THE. TIME.
And it's such a useless stuff, too. Like, yesterday at 2AM some asshat on a bike just kept burning the tires and revving the engine for 3 minutes straight.

And I had to wake up at 4AM for work, so obviously I'm pissed.

[–] Ataraxia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

In italy we had fireworks constantly hit the house it was so dangerous.

[–] Kyle@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

It should be said, if you have a puppy or are getting a puppy. Socialize and habituate them to the sounds. Start with recordings of fireworks playing in another room, treat them when they react to the sounds. When they start wagging their tails and come to you when they hear it, make it more intense by increasing the volume or bringing then into the room. Keep practicing and proofing multiple days per week for months until your puppy happily comes to you when they hear loud bangs.

My puppy now wags his tail and joyfully comes to me when lightning strikes because he thinks it's a fun treat game. Absolutely way better than the alternative. It takes a few weeks with puppies, could take years for traumatized rescues and adults.

[–] Whirlgirl9@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

yeah, last year some chucklehead was firing off big fireworks and set my neighbor's roof on fire. it was around midnight and very scary. one's desire to see pretty bang bangs does not override other's desire to not lose all their shit to a fire.

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Can someone explain what's wrong with the original post? He's not wrong.

[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The people round here love their fireworks. There was a whole ass fireworks show in the fire clearing right down the street. It's almost every night in summer, pretty large aerial fireworks going off, particularly bad the weeks leading up to and after the 4th.

It's annoying af. But I'm used to it, and I don't really have a say in what those people do with their summer nights, nor do I want to.

Taking care of a dog is tough. It's like a child, especially a puppy. I have cats. But always had dogs growing up. I'm still unsure if I want to take the plunge, cause my cat is super needy and will probably hate me lol

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Fireworks are illegal in my area (wildfire risk is too high) but people still set them off anyway. I’d love to see one of my neighbors try to cop this attitude with me. I mean I understand if people want to go play with them but this guy went out of his way to say “fuck all dogs” and what kind of a person says that?

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