I was raised in the Mormon religion. I am also bisexual so I left that poison behind long ago. It was so long ago that I now consider myself Mormon again, but this time I define what it means to have a Mormon heritage. I hate the church associated with my ethnic identity but I am far from the only one with such a journey. Basically, nobody gets to tell me who I am except me.
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Thank you for your input! I've seen some Mormon friends go through similar struggles. All I can say on the matter, is best of luck in leading a life that is significant and meaningful to you personally. I'm trying to stay pretty neutral here but I do have a profound respect for self-agency.
Atheist Antitheist. Raised Protestant Christian, by my Mother... my Dad I think is an Atheist, religion is just wholly unimportant to him. Currently I hold a pretty materialist view of the universe, I don't believe in anything supernatural. No gods, ghosts, souls, demons, curses, or so on.
Thank you!
Pretty sure this isn't the agnostic community.
Yes - but how sure are you that everyone in the atheist community is atheist? That does not appear to be the case from where I am standing.
And where else would I ask the religious atheists about their opinions?
Hence, I asked this community.
See lots of post here fom all and local feed. I Like some of your memes. I used to be a hardcore scientific determinist type athiest. The kind who bought into a fully physical model of the world and anything unfalsifiable was discarded.
I have come around to being more spiritual since then due to very personal subjective experiences I've had through psychedelics. I'm very grateful for the opportunity I had to open my mind to the more mystical and personable aspects of reality. I still have my criticisms of traditional religion and blind faith though which is something atheist and I can usually agree on.
I like the memes here, but tend to lurk. I dont think my differing ideas on the nature of reality and god and whatever would be appreciated, this is a safe space for people who are in suffocatingly oppresive religious enviroments to vent, not a fourm to debate philosophy, so I keep my mouth shut.
Interesting! I agree with your description of the comm.
I'm no stranger to the third eye, although it hasn't shaken me from my determinist leanings. In my personal experience they have seemed relatively compatible - although perhaps not in line with the average determinist worldview, against which I sometimes find myself playing the Devil's Advocate.
Ex-Christian atheist, here. I'm here intentionally. It brings me some peace to see some of the posts and to be able to share my perspective of too many years in an evangelical setting. Getting out took a long time. Empathy started it and reason finished it.
I have found that the definitions of "religion" and "faith" are so varied or vague that they are almost pointless to use anymore. The way I define them, everyone is religious and faith is a necessity.
I would be much more interested in asking about people's worldviews. Wikipedia gives this description: One can think of a worldview as comprising a number of basic beliefs which are philosophically equivalent to the axioms of the worldview considered as a logical or consistent theory. These basic beliefs cannot, by definition, be proven.
I have boiled this down to two essential questions about the nature of life/existence/reality that can be graphed on a quadrant:
Let me explain this a little: The horizontal axis is the duration of existence. The difference between a worldview with an infinite existence and a worldview with a finite existence is immeasurable. If I believe in an infinite existence, then my actions have infinite consequences. This still has some potential qualifiers. For example, I may believe that life/the universe will exist forever, but that I will personally cease to exist when I die. In this case, my actions may still have infinite consequences (for future generations) but I will not personally experience them. A purely finite/temporal worldview would mean that I believe that everything will end in the heat death of the universe or similar life ending event. In this case, it ultimately doesn't matter what I do in life, everything will end the same way.
The vertical axis represents the nature of our existence. Is the source of life personal or impersonal? If I believed an extremely impersonal worldview, then I would believe that we are essentially just biologically pre-programmed to live our lives based on the DNA that we have been built from and that person hood/personal agency is a construct of the mind with no higher meaning. If I believed in an extremely personal worldview, then I would believe that I am created by a personal being that is also interested in a personal relationship with me, and I am created as a reflection of their person hood.
For the record, I believe in an infinite personal existence and an extremely personal nature of existence.
So why am I on c/Atheism?
- I don't want to live in an echo chamber; I like to see what other people believe
- If my beliefs can't stand up to scrutiny, then they aren't worth having
- I would rather know the truth than believe a lie; I would take the red pill
Very interesting, thank you for responding.
Would you care to expand on this part?
I have found that the definitions of “religion” and “faith” are so varied or vague that they are almost pointless to use anymore. The way I define them, everyone is religious and faith is a necessity.
Sure, thanks for asking. Sorry for the book, but I wanted to provide a thorough answer.
Let me start with religion. This can refer to some kind of belief in God or more vaguely in "the supernatural". It can also refer to certain rituals and practices associated with those beliefs. I see many people associate it with "organized religion" which seems to have strong negative connotations (for good reason), as being, phony, disingenuous, a scam, manipulative, a power play, etc. You can find these definitions in various dictionaries, but I use the definition that dictionary.com provides: noun a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature, and purpose of the universe...
I can't speak for other people because I don't know what it is like to be you, or know how you perceive the world. I can only assume that we have similarities based on a shared human condition. I don't see how it is possible to live without either explicitly accepting a fundamental set of beliefs, or at a minimum, implicitly validating them with my actions (which may actually be a truer indication of what I really believe). Regardless, either ignoring a set of beliefs or espousing them isn't going to make them more or less true, which is ultimately what matters.
In our current society, it seems to be accepted that science and religion are diametrically opposed and cannot co-exist. I have observed, especially on the internet, that if I espouse to be religious, then it is assumed that I believe in flying spaghetti monsters and think the earth is flat. I believe that intellectually honest people will find that they are actually in more similar circumstances than they realize. It would be foolish for me to disregard scientific observation and experimentation, but it would be equally foolish for me to disregard the limitations of those observations and experiments:
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It is impossible to take a zero-trust approach with science (never trust, always verify). I don't have access to a Large Hadron Collider to observe the Higgs boson for myself. I don't have access to the LUX-ZEPLIN to experiment with dark matter. I don't have access to the LIGO Lab to observe gravitational waves. I trust that these experiments are conducted correctly and that their findings are correct, but by doing so I am placing my faith in the scientists performing the experiments. I do so also knowing that complete objectivity is impossible. I have a personal bias. My own life experience and observations skew the way I see the world. I assume this is the same of other people, scientists included.
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Even if I had access to all the equipment necessary, and dedicated my entire life to scientific experimentation, I would only be able to conduct a tiny fraction of experiments necessary to explore just a few of the questions about the nature of the universe. At the end of my life, I would likely have more questions about the universe than when I began.
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Even if I had the time, ability, and equipment necessary to conduct all necessary experiments to explore my questions about the universe, I would be making a fundamental assumption that I am actually able to observe everything. I have no idea if there are other dimensions that I will never be able to observe or experiment with. I simply have to accept by faith that these do or do not exist.
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Even if I assumed that everything is observable, and I had the capacity to conduct all necessary experiments, I would still have an impossible problem from a practical standpoint: I need to make decisions on a daily basis. I don't have a lifetime to wait and scientifically determine the nature of the universe before I make a decision about how I want to live my life. I am living it right now. The fundamental truth about the universe matters in the decisions that I have to make right now.
This is why faith is a necessity. I look around, and I see that I am just one of over seven billion people on this Earth, and that Earth is just one of eight planets orbiting our Sun, and that our Sun is just one of billions of stars in our Milky Way Galaxy, a galaxy that is so vast, even travelling at the impossible speed of light, would take me thousands of lifetimes to traverse, and that galaxy is just one of possibly trillions of galaxies in what is just the observable universe. One thing is for sure. I am very small, in every sense of the word. To sit here, and read this paragraph again, and then think that I really know-it-all would make me one of the most arrogant beings in the universe. I know very little, and I live by faith.
A thought-provoking thesis, thank you.
What mechanism prevents a lack of faith, though, in your mind? Is it that not having some faith in something would lead to decision paralysis? Do you not consider it possible to navigate life though statistical confidence/lack of confidence as opposed to conviction? Or is it that such an approach still falls under what you identify as a type of faith?
A thought-provoking thesis, thank you.
Sure, thanks for the discussion.
What mechanism prevents a lack of faith, though, in your mind?
I think a lack of faith, in the sense of doubting what I believe or what I have placed my trust in, is a natural reaction to uncertainty. What I was clumsily trying to describe is that: Because I lack fundamental knowledge of the universe, I must constantly make decisions based on incomplete information. This requires me to place trust in something or someone external from myself.
Is it that not having some faith in something would lead to decision paralysis?
I think the point I was trying to make is that, even if I don't consciously acknowledge my decisions, by just living life I am implicitly trusting in a truth about reality. To give an analogy, imagine three people are walking across a frozen pond covered in snow:
- The first person checks to see if there is ice underneath, and then measures the thickness of the ice, decides that it will hold them, and walks across
- The second person sees that there is ice underneath, but doesn't measure it, and just decides to walk across
- The third person has no clue there is ice there, and walks across the frozen pond
The first person has faith in what they have observed and trusts that the ice will hold them. The second person just has blind faith in the ice and trusts that it will hold them. The third person is completely ignorant and doesn't even realize they are walking on ice. While the third person isn't technically "trusting" the ice, they are living their life in a way that depends on the ice just as much as the other two. What ultimately matters is the truth about whether or not the ice will hold. This truth matters regardless if I am ignorant of it, trust it blindly, or trust it because of my observations.
Do you not consider it possible to navigate life though statistical confidence/lack of confidence as opposed to conviction? Or is it that such an approach still falls under what you identify as a type of faith?
As a Poker player, I can appreciate this train of thought, but I wouldn't want to try to live life based solely on some kind of statistical calculation. I think if I tried to calculate an expected value for living life according to the probability of a worldview, then I would end up in a Pascal's wager type situation: Even if I was 99.99999% certain that the universe is finite and impersonal, bringing any percentage possibility of eternity into the calculation would swing the value completely in that direction.
As far as categorizing this as faith, I would place this in the same category as my statements about science: it would be foolish for me to ignore statistics and other branches of mathematics, but it would also be foolish of me to ignore the fact that even mathematics is based on axioms and may be incomplete.
I don't want to give the impression that I think life must be lived by blind faith; my worldview is based on a combination of experience, observation, and intellection. However, I do want to dispel the notion that if I were an atheist, I could have a complete worldview that doesn't require any faith. I don't mean this as a slight to atheists, but rather an argument that both "religious" people an atheists share the same human condition which is surrounded with uncertainty.
Interesting, thank you for the explanation.
Preacher's kid here. The first 30-some years of my life I was inculcated in conservative Christian orthodoxy. My journey to "faithlessness" paralleled my journey to anarchism, but started a bit later. I considered myself an anarchist a few years before I considered myself an atheist.
That said, after more than three decades in the church, are you ever truly done with faith? The easiest place to spot "faith" creeping into my life is in my music. For many years I refused to have anything to do with the music of Christianity. But it turns out I like that music! So I said fuck-it , and started adding some gospel back to my music server. I even sing along sometimes.
I also happen to love the art of preaching, not necessarily the content, but the delivery. Watching a skilled preacher brings me the same happiness watching a skilled actor does.
So in both those senses I'm still a bit religious.
Honest to god (pun intended), I wish religion and the chruch was not constantly surrounded with controversy. I don't care about any god, but I think local churches often do provide good service to the community and priests do help people grieve etc. If only the church didn't constantly try to mind my business, we could be friends.
This is really a great statement. There are many extraordinary people of faith, I am blessed to have some of them as friends. Unhappily, there are many horrible people of faith, and they give the good ones a bad name.
Worship how you see fit, just don't demand the rest of us subscribe to your world view.
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I'm a (western) Buddhist. I air on the secular side, I'm agnostic towards the existence of deities. That is, I acknowledge that they are part of the world view, but as they aren't central to the core teachings, I don't mind them one way or the other. I'm pretty sure there's a community for it, and I'm subscribed; it mostly deals with sharing verses from different Sutras.
I'm perfectly fine with c/Atheism. I visit because I see it, mostly. A lot of the relevance for me is in the context of my living in the US / being a former Christian and facing an increasingly aggressive and deranged Christian Nationalist movement. I believe that religious beliefs are something you choose to follow if you think it helps you frame your worldly experience or be a better person, but they're certainly not something you force on others.
I comment a reasonable amount, I think.
The only thing I want the atheists to know is that I'm happy to stand with you for your rights and freedoms.
- I am religious but I am also an atheist. There's quite a few religions that are non-theist and reject the supernatural. !globalorderofsatan@lemmy.blahaj.zone is the c I mod on behalf of the org I belong to.
- I subscribe :) I click on anything that interests me
- Comment sometimes
- Hi :)
This is like going on a vegan board and asking if anyone likes entrcote
It's more like going on the vegan board and asking if anybody likes Impossible or Beyond burgers. You can have burgers without the animal, and you can have religions without gods.
I would argue that not believing in gods is not the same as being religious or spiritual.
I'm a TST Satanist. I wouldn't call it a "faith", but I would call it a religion. Yes, there is a community for it, although it is not very active.
I lurk here, but I haven't read many of the posts, so I don't have an opinion on this community.
Dune 2 is the closest I’ve come to experiencing religion. That movie is spiritual.
The initial question is always "Do you believe in god" But the answer to that question that I never see is "that depends on your definition of god. I believe that there is something behind all of this. I have no idea what it is but there has to be some meaning to it. That could be no different than the life existence of a squirrel for us humans. What I know is just nonsense and mythology are personal gods. Moses, Jesus, Mohammed......whatever. They may have been real historical people. They may have spread a message of hope and comfort. But they certainly were no more human than the rest of us.
that depends on your definition of god.
For sure - for example deism and panpsychism are beliefs generally considered gnostic, but they don't necessitate an interventionist sort of god that is commonly believed in.