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[–] badcommandorfilename@lemmy.world 53 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (6 children)

Hot take: your gender is irrelevant in 90% of situations

[–] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 19 points 8 months ago

Should be irrelevant even more often.

[–] Emi621@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 8 months ago (2 children)
[–] tkk13909@sopuli.xyz 35 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Honestly I'd fuck anything at this point. Gender included.

[–] ITypeWithMyDick@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago
[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 5 points 8 months ago

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[–] AFallingAnvil@lemmy.ca 5 points 8 months ago

All my homies hate gender

[–] BautAufWasEuchAufbaut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

For who? And what situations?

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 5 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Hotter take: gender is irrelevant in 100% of situations. Your sex is sometimes relevant to your doctor and your sexual partner, and is irrelevant the rest of the time. Embracing atypical gender expressions gets in the way of discarding the whole outdated concept.

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[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 3 points 8 months ago

They don't think it be like it is, but it do, it do.

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[–] kittykittycatboys@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] alexiascylding@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] kittykittycatboys@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

nyaa mrowrr prrrrbt meow :3

[–] AzzyDev@beehaw.org 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

this is why i love (/p) the gay people in my phone

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[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 26 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I prefer the Popeye method: "I yam what I yam"

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[–] alexiascylding@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 8 months ago (5 children)

op here, im bigender and this is how it be

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 35 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I'm bigender

I'm big. Please don't end me. 🥺

[–] derpgon@programming.dev 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm bi, please don't gender me. 😫

[–] alexiascylding@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] alexiascylding@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 8 months ago

You're safe for now im bi-gender haha

[–] kittykittycatboys@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 8 months ago (3 children)

[saw voice] hello bigender op im a cat an i demand pet mrow meow meow mrowr meoww

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[–] toasteecup@lemmy.world 16 points 8 months ago

Blahaj moment

[–] JohnDoe@lemmy.myserv.one 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (3 children)

cishet and still giving you critical support in your struggles against rigid gender role binarism 🫡

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[–] Darkscryber@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

You are a Schrodinger sexual?

[–] alexiascylding@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 8 months ago

i mean i identify as bisexual?? but idk i guess it would be schrodinger's sexual. im the cat in that box. nyan~

[–] regul@lemm.ee 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] wrenchmonkey@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 8 months ago

le epic comment take my upvote XDDDD

[–] Chetzemoka@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago

"Depends on what day it is and which direction the wind is blowing" is how I like to describe my gender

[–] FractalsInfinite@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Personally I don't engage with gender. Gender is only useful in changing peoples perceptions of yourself and I don't find people "lying" about my identity to my face to be an issue. I would identify as non binary or agender, but to do that would induce cognitive burden on others and make survay data more difficult, so I just don't. Life is too short to bother educating people you meet about how you understand your own gender.

Who am I, I'm fractal and my pronouns are whatever you are willing to calling me in this moment.

[–] alexiascylding@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

cool beans you do you but some people find comfort in such labels and thats valid just as your viewpoint is valid

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[–] MBM@lemmings.world 3 points 8 months ago

I think I'm the same, which I guess is a privileged position to be in

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[–] tquid@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 months ago

Full on Madhyamika gender

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