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[–] Red_October@lemmy.world 39 points 10 months ago

Actually the same though.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 32 points 10 months ago (6 children)

What is a "sigma male?"

And why would you be ridiculed and scorned for opening up emotionally?

None of this meme makes sense to me.

[–] Rosco@sh.itjust.works 20 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

There's plenty of people that are relunctant to open up to others because they are scared of their reaction. I am one of them.

[–] runswithjedi@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

I'm sorry to hear that. Try talking to a counselor or therapist. I felt the same way for a long time and I've gradually worked up the confidence to express how I feel and express my emotions. It was really hard and took a lot of work (and therapy and medication) and I feel completely empowered now. It's a great feeling.

[–] iiGxC@slrpnk.net 15 points 10 months ago (25 children)

And why would you be ridiculed and scorned for opening up emotionally?

because people are mean and repeat the mean things that have been done to them, and difficult emotions make people uncomfortable and one way to avoid them is punishing people who do open up

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[–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago

Sigma > Alpha now apparently, Alpha is the new Beta

[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

My parents and school teachers and peers made it very clear to me that if you show emotion such as sadness, jealousy, frustration, fear, or anxiety, you were not living up to being a male and thus are weak and deserving of punishment, physical violence, and social isolation and ridicule.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Where did you grow up? That was absolutely not my experience as a kid in Indiana.

[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Maybe it's different there, I don't know. Or maybe it was a different era? I grew up in the 80s and I just never have gotten that sort of impression from the people around me and I am not one to hide my emotions.

[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 7 points 10 months ago

It was the early 2000s. Teachers would say things like “you’re acting like a girl, show everyone you are a man” and whatnot. Guess you got lucky and I’m glad to hear it.

[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 2 points 10 months ago

Good times, noodle salad.

[–] starman2112@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

why would you be ridiculed and scorned for opening up emotionally?

Not to sound like a blue-haired liberal, but at least in my neck of the woods, toxic masculinity is to blame. Like, one of my favorite internet folk got bullied off the internet recently for saying he likes girls a little too enthusiastically. Some dudes will absolutely tear you apart if you are a man that exhibits anything other than stoic passivity.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Like, one of my favorite internet folk got bullied off the internet recently for saying he likes girls a little too enthusiastically.

I honestly can't even wrap my head around that. He was bullied off the internet for being heterosexual?

[–] gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 10 months ago

The blue haired libruls saw it as objectifying women

The chudly cuckservstive types saw it as an effeminate man being gasp not MANLY enough

And JoCats Fans sit back and wonder why everyone's so fucking butthurt at a goddamn little parody of "Boys"

[–] starman2112@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

JoCat likes girls, and people hate him for it. There are plenty of videos going around talking about the situation in further detail

[–] NaoPb@eviltoast.org 3 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I had to Google it and what came up seems to be it's basically a lone wolf but worded by people who also use terms like alpha male.

I may be wrong though.

[–] MashedTech@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

The alpha male gets rebranded every time once the previous rebranding gets ridiculed to death. Can't wait to see what sigma male gets transformed to

[–] Maalus@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Not really, it was supposed to be a person so above the "alpha beta" bullshit, not caring about how people perceive them, that they wrap around the "spectrum" in front of "alpha". It was meant to be a comedic / sarcastic way to rebuke toxic standards, but it was assimilated into the general "philosophy" of it.

So basically it's all bullshit anyway

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

Alpha Pro Max Plus

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 13 points 10 months ago

I don't open up emotionally because no one cares

[–] Moghul@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago

Same picture, different coping mechanism

[–] UnfortunateShort@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I don't open up because I don't want to scar other people with the contents of my head. We are not the same.

[–] MashedTech@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

This would have been a much better meme.

[–] Tarkcanis@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

*have repetedly experienced

[–] 0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 months ago (2 children)
[–] Red_October@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Sigma Males are what those guys who used to call themselves Alpha Males now call themselves, because everyone started making fun of them for calling themselves Alpha Males.

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

So... let's make fun of them for calling themselves Sigma Males. It's at least as dumb, and more reactionary.

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[–] Harvey656@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Bold of you to assume I'm a sigma male.

[–] MashedTech@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] Harvey656@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago
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