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I have had a tendency since my earliest days on social media where I will get halfway or more through a response, and end up just cancelling it. Sometimes I feel like I’m just being to over the top with snark or otherwise don’t want to be that kind of person, but a lot of the time I’ll decide I just really don’t care enough to finish it. Sometimes I just know it’ll be an argument and I know what the person is going to say, and just have no interest in continuing the discussion. I did it on Reddit, I did it on bulletin boards, I even did it in my teens and twenties on Usenet - and I’ll probably go on doing it for as long as I continue using this medium. I probably do it a bit more than half the time. I know that lemmy benefits from more content and I have had some great discussions, but sometimes it’s just not worth it for me.

How about you? Do you hit publish or cancel more often?

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[–] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Rarely. I made it a point to finish my thoughts here, since I have a tendency to abandon what I write halfway, and I'm going to stop making excuses for myself.

I have had some misses, but people seems to like to read my random thoughts and corny jokes here. Mostly.

[–] lorez@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

You gotta pick your battles.

[–] bandario@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 months ago

All the time. I could have typed a multi-paragraph masterpiece but then I realise I can't be bothered offering help in a world full of people that know everything about everything and are never wrong.

[–] hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 months ago

Whenever I have a train of thought that suddenly stops and I don't want to spend time thinking how to finish the message

[–] JoBo@feddit.uk 2 points 11 months ago

All the time but not as often as I should.

[–] KarsicKarl@kbin.social 2 points 10 months ago

I used to do it a lot.
Typically this would be responding to someone being provocative.
I decided that they were angry people just trying to make other people angry.
So now I write articles mocking them.
I am much more relaxed now.

[–] indepndnt@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Less now that I've learned to give up before I start.

[–] ChiefSinner@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Can't put a number on it, but I'd wager it happens the majority of the time

[–] MajorHavoc@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

I can't think of a single time I've-

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

i do this increasingly often lately.

[–] JPJones@startrek.website 1 points 11 months ago
[–] ohlaph@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago
[–] Syndic@feddit.de 1 points 11 months ago

Increasingly more often in the last year or two. Makes social media use for me a lot more pleasant. But sometime I still can't resist.

[–] Tlaloc_Temporal@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 months ago

Rough estimate, 30%. Either because my point ended up not being worth making, I ended up being wrong, or the message was dumped at some point between switching through 4 apps and 12 websites gathering information and I can't be arsed to write 400 words again.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

One in five, I'll guess. I am prone to TMI, not as much intimate sharing as wanting to write about things that are too far remotely related.

I'm also prone to seguing into a rant as I have much to say I wish were said more often. Sometimes I edit those out. Sometimes I mark them as rants.

And then I am prone to mobile keyboard fatigue, and will wear out if a short explanation won't do. I get back to it at a proper keyboard less often than I don't.

[–] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

I wish more people on Lemmy and everywhere else were like you.

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