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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 89 points 1 year ago (3 children)

A false dichotomy created by pop culture to divide teenagers into cliques.

[–] Flyberius@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, I mean I did plenty of both.

[–] MammyWhammy@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And have felt super cool and like a total loser doing both.

[–] Flyberius@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago
[–] zifnab25@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

Imagine not cracking a beer while playing Vidya Games.

[–] TimeSquirrel@kbin.social 74 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Is this divisive jock/preppy/nerd/skater/gangsta shit still going on 23 years after I left high school? I thought y'all zoomers were better than that.

[–] SternburgExport@feddit.de 28 points 1 year ago

Actually not. You can be a massive nerd these days and still go get fucked up and party.

[–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children)

There will always be popular extroverts and unpopular introverts.

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[–] hoodatninja@kbin.social 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
[–] Tavarin@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This would have been maybe edgy or interesting 20 years ago

Having been a teenager approximately 20 years ago, no this wouldn't. We partied and went out, and played video games and surfed the net back then too.

[–] pjhenry1216@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Eh. I grew up in a football town. There was definitely a dichotomy between the popular kids and the "nerds" back when the term was only used as an insult. I think people have to remember their local experiences are only indicative of their locale, not the world at large. The same likely applies here. Won't be true for everyone, so the post is at least wrong in that regard, but the person who made it probably just didn't consider their experience is the same as everyone else's either.

[–] pjhenry1216@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Based on just browsing social media, this would be more accurate if it were stated as a spectrum and the two extremes hate each other. That would explain the posts in the recent past of people complaining about "normies" (unironically) joining Lemmy.

[–] hoodatninja@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)
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[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I've seen complaints about "normies" using Lemmy, it has more to do with people who are enlightened centrists / freeze peach warriors bringing their diseased takes here from reddit

I don't think it has anything to do with which specific hobbies people enjoy, especially since we can't even see that through the screen. I don't know anyone who really cares if you enjoy clubs, gaming, or both.

[–] hoodatninja@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago
[–] bighatchester@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was actually both . I was in the robotics club and programming/ gaming on my free time. Then on the weekends I was out drinking and hanging with a completely different set of friends.

[–] nexguy@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

The double loser? Gaming and having friends must have been painful to live through.

[–] sagrotan@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

In the 90s it wasn't a problem to do both, so I became a double loser.

[–] GeekFTW@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was the Internet/Gamer kid raised by television who got drunk at 17 and fell off a roof. Why was I drunk on a roof? Fuckin' 2001.

Not sure which category I fall under.

[–] platysalty@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah lol. I was an internet troll through and through, and somehow found my way into a pretty diverse group in uni.

I don't even want to start on the drunk shenanigans we got up to.

[–] Fibby@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Gamers truly are the most oppressed ✊😪

[–] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

Gamers rise up!

only-good-gamer

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 year ago

I'm about to blaze up and jump into this Tarkov wipe with the boys. The fuck is this.

[–] Dirk@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I really don't care about party-goers.

[–] Anamana@feddit.de 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How about internet party goers

[–] Engywuck@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And how about lan-party goers?

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[–] Haha@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

If you’re not born rich, you’re a loser. There.

[–] Squirrel@thelemmy.club 6 points 1 year ago

Oh no, I was in the first group (for 3/4 of high school) and I definitely thought that I was a loser.

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Alcohol gives you cancer, gaming does not.

[–] ursakhiin@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You haven't played LoL, have you?

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think I tried it out but discovered that I find MOBAs boring as hell.

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[–] KingJalopy@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Spoiler alert...

They both suck

[–] bigmonkey@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I was both of these as a teen and basically still am. I'm also a confirmed loser so this meme checks out!

[–] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Same except for the still am part.

[–] gamarus@lemmy.cat 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm part of the two, am I special? 🙊

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