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What's something you used to do/see/say but don't anymore because you don't feel it's right? (lemmy.world)
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Me personally? I've become much less tolerant of sexist humor. Back in the day, cracking a joke at women's expense was pretty common when I was a teen. As I've matured and become aware to the horrific extent of toxicity and bigotry pervading all tiers of our individualistic society, I've come to see how exclusionarly and objectifying that sort of 'humor' really is, and I regret it deeply.

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[–] rev@ihax0r.com 57 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Like the black musician who befriended all those kkk members and got them to retire their hoods and leave the kkk. It wasn’t by been mean and condescending he was very nice to them.

[–] Tigbitties@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago

There's a WBC member that was being groomed for politics and he was turned by two Jewish guys while he was in university. They killed him with kindness. He wrote a book about it and there's a great NPR interview with him and he talks about it.

[–] Candelestine@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

... now that I've gotta google... lol