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Dated a girl who had a boyfriend. I was her "secret boyfriend" and she always told me that she was going to leave him, just need to find the right time, just another week, you'll see babe. The surprising thing is that it was sexual, it wasn't a friendzone thing.
She was my first and I stupidly thought it was something special. Nope, she just liked having the attention and had a fair amount of damage. She eventually did leave him, I was elated, and then a month later she cheated on me.
There's no secret bf/gf folks, if she doesn't want to tell her friends it's a massive red flag for you, just move onto someone who respects you