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[–] Prandom_returns@lemm.ee 84 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

"Top 15 hobbies that sound attractive to women"

[–] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

It's a bit of both. I can see these hobbies leading to a healthy relationship, but anyone who thinks the answer isn't "hit the gym" is coping.

(Btw I'm no gym rat, but this is a fact)

[–] Prandom_returns@lemm.ee 6 points 1 hour ago

Too much generalisation for my taste.

[–] Shapillon@lemmy.world 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Hitting the gym can't hurt but it's very low on my list of priorities.

Being chill, open with one's emotions, able to communicate reasonably, willing to help around etc are way higher.

Usually being a woman helps too but life's life.

[–] ripripripriprip@lemmy.world 1 points 4 minutes ago

Those aren't really hobbies, though.

[–] underwire212@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)
[–] Cataphract@lemmy.ml 2 points 48 minutes ago (1 children)

Hiking - sounds attractive, but the woman may not actually enjoy hiking especially doing multiple day trails

Woodworking - "wow you made this desk yourself?!" Reality: Spent weeks designing and getting the right materials, spent more weeks in the shop getting everything right, spent months all together away and in a shop so you could present..... a desk (the novelty runs out real quick with a partner)

Same with a lot of them, if you're really into a hobby and it is presentable.... You've spent a fuckton of time on it. Something you could do while you were single, 10x harder to pick up or continue doing in a relationship since your time is now divided. It becomes one of those, "Yeah they love doing photography and they're really good at it!" (cue partner standing there who hasn't taken a picture in over a year looking sheepish).

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 38 minutes ago (1 children)

my sister woodworks. Its so loud. On the bright side we now have a shop vac to clean the cars with so win win.

[–] Cataphract@lemmy.ml 1 points 14 minutes ago

Oh yeah, equipment is definitely a perk. It's kinda amazing how cheap shop vacs are too compared to going to a car wash repeatedly. But I think you jostled a caveat to all of these hobbies, being not broke lol. Could really put a strain on a relationship when you would previously sacrifice to get something but now you're asking a partner to do the same.