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Are antisocial habits keeping you down? (leminal.space)

submitted 2 months ago by spiderwort@leminal.space to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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People are painful to me. I find their presence painful. I've been this way since infancy. I created a suite of methods for keeping them away (methods like "passive-aggressive hostility"). These methods became deep habits. Later in life I hungered for company and couldn't figure out why I was so bad at it. I just recently realized what's up (thanks meditation). Do any of you relate?

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[–] averyminya@beehaw.org 1 points 2 months ago

People are proximal! Maybe they haven't reached out because they feel the same about you -- "Man, I miss PerogiBoi! I know they're around but they haven't reached out to hang with our crew... they must need some space or have moved on".

It goes both ways!