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How does it feel being in a relationship? (lemm.ee)

submitted 5 months ago by FookReddit69@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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The fact I'll die alone without ever feeling the love of a woman besides my mother and without a child saddens me. So, as kind of a consolation, I want to know... How does it feel? Being in love and being together, the sex part, just living together and all that...

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[–] Carighan@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Not really, but apologies. The USA are just one country, after all, chances would be OP is from elsewhere.

[–] Hazzia@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

OP did, in fact, confirm elsewhere in another comment. Still doesn't guarantee he's from a mental-health friendly nation, but it is kinda crazy that he was indicating that the USA was somehow inherently better for building relationships than other places...

[+] FookReddit69@lemm.ee -8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It is. For what is heard girls fuck some random guys in some places there just for funsies. That ISN'T a reality here.

[–] invisiblegorilla@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

Your true colours and immaturity show. You don't want a relationship, you want to be debaucherous for your own self gratification. You'll never get a girl while appearing to be such a letch. That doesn't mean hide being a letch, but get a relationship for the right reason. Women deserve to be treated with respect, not as some object. And that, buddy, is why you are alone

[–] retrieval4558@mander.xyz 6 points 5 months ago

Incels are exhausting

[–] hellothere@sh.itjust.works -3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

This is so wildly inappropriate for what Op is struggling with it's unreal.

Whatever your parents did to you to make you think this "tough love" approach is right would be best unpacked with a therapist. Get help.

[–] FookReddit69@lemm.ee -5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Piss off with that moralistic shit

[–] hellothere@sh.itjust.works -4 points 5 months ago

Good on you for standing up for yourself - and you've identified something very important, women are not all the same. Keep reminding yourself of that.