Anecdotes: my neighbors used to let their baby crawl around the gravel parking lot, neighborhood cats and dogs hanging out, and I was like "Those are good parents."
Meanwhile a neat freak surgeon and nurse couple raised kids that are allergic to nearly everything in the world (ex used to babysit the allergic kids).
Something good about growing up with cats and dogs in the house and playing in the mud. (If you're in an area without parasites in the ground)
Can't blame people for assuming the worst after YouTube removed the star system and then dislikes.
There's no good way to see if a video is trash. Especially if comments are disabled.