inb4_FoundTheVegan

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[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 7 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Nope. It wasn't until after he died that I went to therapy and started talking about the memory before putting it all together. Dad worked in IT security so I don't doubt he was careful.

The closest that he came to consequences that I know about, is when the FBI came to his house to interview me. My parents were divorced and I spent 50/50 with each parent. My mother's boyfriend was being accused of seeding a torrent filled with CP, and the FBI came to ask me if I knew anything. This was around the time of the AIM incident. Dad wasn't home and was pretty upset that I let them inside.

Anyways, it took nearly a decade and countless dollars in lawyer fees for the case against my (by then) step-dad to be dropped. The FBI can led the court date after we uncovered hard proof that he wasn't even home that day, but it had already cost him his career. Unlike my Dad, my step dad wasn't a tech person, like at all. So while I don't have any proof or idea how, I'm fairly certain that somehow my dad got access to his laptop to frame him.

Which is why I said that the AIM thing is only the worst thing he did to me. Another runner up would be the statutory rape of my mom when she was 14 and he was 20 that led to my birth. Unfortunately, the theme of child exploitation runs through many chapters in my Dad's angry miserable life.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 14 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (4 children)

When I was 15 or so my dad made a fake AIM address and posed as a girl from my school so he could encourage me to masturbate with the child porn he was sending me. When i got freaked out and stopped responding he called my phone and said that "the girl from school" was bothering him at work and I needed to keep talking with *her". I didn't figure out that it was him until a decade later later. I remember panicking all night about what I knew was illegal images, so I told him what happened and he just mocked me for not knowing how to do an ip trace to see who it was.

Dad was a real piece of shit. But that was the worst thing he did to me personally.

Oh sure, everything new becomes old eventually, that's just how time works. I'm more poking fun at those who let their nostalgia determine what is worthwhile.

Her name was Michelle.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 47 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (7 children)

"music was better when..."

Any version of this makes the speaker sound suuuper old and bitter. 😂

My assumption is that these are state actors doing the hacks. No one, allies and opposing states, want to deal with the chaos of a 2nd Trump administration.

This is a thread designed for racism.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 220 points 6 days ago

“This is no different than the maintenance guy moving it out there,” Diny said Wednesday. “I’m a member of staff. There’s nothing nefarious going on here. I’m hoping for a good result.”

But you're not the fucking maintenance guy, you're a candidate moving voting equipment for a goddamn photoshoot. The only possible good result is your defeat.

where no form of real world politics

Oh fuck off, queer people aren't politics. It's literally just humans existing, but since some bigots want to limit their rights you call it political. This is the same exact thought process of asking "the Jewish question".

never cared what the main protagonist is like

And yet here you are saying a bunch of dumb stuff about devs pushing things in. You can't have it both ways.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it's a game that doesn't pander to LGBTQ

🙄

Yeah, that's not a thing.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 143 points 1 week ago

There are other people pointing out all the pratical reasons why this isn't the case.

But I like the spirit and vibe of this idea, good shower thought.

Hey there, my personal sanctuary is long decadent bubble baths as a way to just focus on myself. But if bathrooms aren't safe for you, then maybe head to your local library? Most tend to have study rooms you can reserve if you just want some solitude.

Sending you warm helping vibes my friend! ♥ 💕

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