drbollocks

joined 4 weeks ago
[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

thanks so much 🫂 gave me the ick a little that he barely acknowledged that i liked girls. he only cared about if i liked guys or had a bf, he only got upset when i liked a guy.

it’s almost as if he was trying to act like i was straight, which was a bit insulting to me. if i had a gf/liked a girl, he would act like that meant i was just single and not attracted to anyone at all.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

that makes sense, you’re right. i reworded it, i realized how wrong it sounded

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

thanks so much, i blocked him because he wouldn’t stop harassing me. he told me to ditch my bf for him and didn’t care that i didn’t have feelings for him. in fact, he didn’t care much about my personality or identity so long as i was his girlfriend. that’s all he saw, nothing else outside of that.

and even though he wanted me to “take my time”, he was convinced i was his future wife despite only having known me for about a week all because i was pretty and nice to him.

he also didn’t actually care whether or not i liked him, he just wanted me to say yes regardless. i feel like since that was his first time, he’d have sex with me, force me into doing it if i said no, and then break up and badmouth me.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

i didn’t know all the details, he just said that she showed signs of schizophrenia and acted weird. i didn’t know her and didn’t know their relationship, but i know he did leave her because she had hallucinations, paranoia, thought objects were real (like dolls), and apparently age regressed a lot. he said she got too clingy and “weird” and even “crazy” for his liking. (which ik that word is stigmatizing in that context because in high school, we were told not to call ppl who showed signs of mental illness crazy)

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)
[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

it’s a slur? let me change the title then

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

ahhh, that makes a lot of sense. (learning Polish), for some reason i thought obiad was just lunch and kolacja was dinner but this makes more sense

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

this lady who was my friend for a while is mean a lot because she has anger issues and is just a generally miserable, rude person. she is also autistic (i believe) like me, and gets overstimulated and is rude to everyone when they start talking all at once.

however, she is also especially cruel when she wants some sort of goal, and acts superior to everyone else. you’re a useless loser no matter how hard you try, and you are disgusting to be around. how dare you stand less than 10 yards from her?! you’re lucky to even be in her presence.

also, she is “always better than you” and cannot admit being wrong or take accountability.

 

i have a lot going on besides that. just broke up with a guy, realized i wasn’t even into guys (but it stung more that he didn’t pay attention to me/care regardless), then having some rocky relationships with my gf (open relationship) and long-time friend, the latter i’m cutting contact with. (meaning i will only talk to her if i have to or if she talks to me first)

with all of this, my anxiety’s acting up and i’m a bit (still although it got better) on edge.

 

I created !Crushes@lemmy.blahaj.zone for the people who have crushes

 

!crushes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

anyone who’s attracted to someone can post here :)

I’ve seen adults with crushes so…

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