GnomeKat

joined 1 year ago
[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone -2 points 4 months ago

Please leave me alone

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

~~You are the one who presumed to know what I do or don't actually want. Thank you for your attempt at kindness but it really didn't come off like that to me. I think its best to end this interaction here as its not going to be productive for either of us. Sorry.~~

Edit: oh i thought you were the person who I was responding too but you are not.. in that case please leave me alone, thankyou..

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (10 children)

im trying very hard to quit smoking weed... i know it's not the same as nicotine addiction but it's still a struggle. I smoked weed almost every day for like 6 years or something.

its annoying cus like i will be reminded of it constantly, weed culture is everywhere, memes and shows and movies and books. I get reminded and i want it, I get the urge and its hard not to smoke a little. i will go days or weeks without any but then I will fuck up and smoke again and suddenly i will be smoking every day again for a few weeks.

edit: i wasn't asking for advice, i have a therapist I am working with please stop trying to give me advice its not what I want or need and I don't like it, it makes me super incredibly uncomfortable. Its not helping. Thank you

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Alcohol, I just dont like the taste

I smoke weed occasionally but even that I have been trying to cut out cus I abused it for years

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 4 months ago

no no no dont you know saying that here on lemmy means your a taaannnnkkkieeeeee /s

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 4 months ago

Not being able to talk about capitalism in a tech community is like having a fishing community and not being able to talk about how the waters got shit in it.

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 49 points 4 months ago

You should look up the double empathy problem. Its been shown that autistic people don't struggle to communicate or be understood by other autistic people. Its only between autistic and non autistic people where the issues arise but only one side gets all the blame when the failure is both ways.

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 4 months ago

I was talking to them recently about a job and their pay is kinda low for the industry too

[–] GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Mastodon is pretty great for queer people. Better than lemmy I would say (and obviously better than the mainstream apps) ...

 

And a bit of a follow up question because I want to complain a bit, why does it feel like most movie recommendation websites suck?

 

Basically what the title says, while the page is loading sometimes I will see someone else's username and pfp in the top left corner before it switches to my own when the page finishes loading. I have seen this happen twice now.

Posted this over on asklemmy but they deleted the post so posting here now..

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