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[–] BallShapedMan@lemmy.world 31 points 3 weeks ago

I don't even make the chart? CIS father of a trans kid trying to make the trans kid laugh when they try to get my attention at the store by saying "Dad!"

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The ONE time I heard this, I said it myself at the Gamestop where I'm a regular as a joke.

I was asked Cash or Credit, and I in a faux-outraged voice just asked "Did you just assume my tender?"

Then me and the cashier laughed.

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

The pun is great, but they actually didn't assume your tender because they asked what you wanted to use.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, the only time I actually heard that phrase in real life was at a transsexual gaming night, followed by a burst of laughter.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 2 weeks ago

pls say transgender thanksies <3

[–] NickwithaC@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You forgot "cis allies making fun on cis transphobes" which I calculate to be a larger slice of the pie than all the others combined.

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Actually, trans is like 0.1% of the total population, so that sliver of trans people who say that should much tinier.

[–] TypicalHog@lemm.ee 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

People have evolved stereotyping and assuming things cause it was beneficial from the evolutionary perspective.

[–] djsoren19@yiffit.net 0 points 2 weeks ago

Still is, people use heuristic thinking every day of their lives. It's not like we'd be better off removing that part of us, the ability to make quick and decisive decisions should be applauded. We just need to remember that the first conclusion we jump to is not always correct.