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[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 16 points 6 days ago

get 10-12 hours of sleep before, works like a charm, I get tired around 3pm and go to sleep at 7-8. wake up at 4-6 and have no free time. but I manage to get to school on time, and all I have to do is sacrifice my entire personal life.

[–] 2piradians@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

Get up. Don't fuck around with snooze, those few extra minutes don't help.

Allow time to reward yourself for getting up. For me it's word puzzles and coffee before I get ready.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 15 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I wake up between 4-5AM every single day of the week, and all year long. I don't even need an alarm clock. I can go to sleep at anytime

  • No screen before bed. No computer, no phone, no tablet, no TV (we don't own a TV, so we don't have much choice here ;). What do I do instead? I read a book, journal, write, chat with my spouse or friends, play chess or board games,... I do various stuff just not on a screen. Not even using a Kindle.
  • No coffee in the evening. No alcohol at all (evening as well as in the day: I was an alcoholic many, many years ago). No soda either. Either I'll drink water or herbal tea.
  • Light & healthy diner. I don't stuff my stomach, don't eat garbage pre-packaged industrial 'food' either (this alone was a huge change for me, the day I quit eating that absolute turd a few years ago and my health has jumped through the roof, pre-packaged food is just poison in a fancy packaging and a lot of marketing, I would not be surprise if it was to become the tobacco of the XXI health-wise).
  • No snacking, no candy, chips, or whatever.
  • At least one long walk during the day. Every day.
[–] Greee1911@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

My wife has to eat a snack with her medicine she takes before bed or she gets nauseas. I have struggled to find an alternative to goldfish because I agree, it's garbage. Any thoughts?

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My wife has to eat a snack with her medicine she takes before bed or she gets nauseas. I have struggled to find an alternative to goldfish because I agree, it’s garbage. Any thoughts?

What is a goldfish (beside a fish, I mean)? If you mean an alternative to snack, has she tried fresh fruits (an apple, pear, a few grapes,...) or maybe things like nuts? The idea being to no eat heavily processed food at all and not too much of anything. If she is not into fresh fruits (that would be sad), at worst I would suggest a slice of fresh bread (here again not the industrial hyper-processed kind of bread, real bread) with something, maybe a little jam?

[–] bcgm3@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] Libb@jlai.lu 1 points 6 days ago

Oh, thx a lot!

I must admit I don't know much about those kind of snacks but I would be surprised a doctor would suggest to eat those with any kind of medication.

[–] jim_v@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

I've had great luck with rice cakes, unsalted pretzels, or natural peanut butter on toasted bread of some sort.

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 18 points 6 days ago (1 children)

So far it looks like the consensus is: wake up early and don't feel like garbage. 😆

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The masses do not always have the solution. Genetics is a harsh mistress. We are the ones that take the late watch. We protect the tribe at night. Today, we are despised unless we fulfill the meager agendas... But we are not without worth. Chin up, friends. We may have our day.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

Best answer here.

[–] SpikesOtherDog@ani.social 15 points 6 days ago

Waking up early and feeling like garbage is amplified for me by drinking, staying up late, eating just before bed, watching screens until I fall asleep, having inconsistent hours over the weekend, and getting accustomed to snooze.

Avoiding these things seems to help.

Having kids and hearing them do stuff early in the morning seems to get me moving early.

[–] RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 6 days ago

I've redefined what early means. My work starts at 2pm so waking up at midday is early and it feels slightly better

[–] Karcinogen@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 6 days ago

I do several things in conjunction.

  1. I plan when I need to go sleep using either sleepyti.me or wakeupti.me and set my alarms accordingly. Setting your alarm to align with your sleep patterns makes the act of waking up much easier.

  2. I set my phone on my desk away from my bed. The reasoning is two-fold; it forces me to get up and out of bed to dismiss my alarm(This works extra well if you make it a habit to get dressed as soon as you're out of bed.), and it prevents me from laying in bed while playing on my phone.

  3. I wake up at the same time every day. Consistency is paramount managing sleep.

  4. I only sleep in my bed. I don't do anything else. This builds an association to automatically get sleepy when you get in bed because the only thing you in bed is sleep. Your brain knows what to expect and just does it. Sort of like how some guys get excited when they see their girlfriend tie her into a ponytail.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago

Be born different, my friend. Never regret how you were built, however, as it is prized and unique.

[–] mattlqx@lemmy.lqx.net 4 points 6 days ago
  • I just need a good 7 hours of sleep at least. You can't cheat sleep duration. Eventually, you'll need to catch up if you aren't getting enough and it'll compound the bad feeling.
  • I fall asleep faster if I've had a drink, but not necessarily better. I might wake up in the middle of the night if I do.
  • Pattern is important. If you usually wake up at 9 or 10am and want to wake up at 5 or 6am instead, you'll probably have some meh feeling regardless, but the more you do it, the better it gets. Maybe consider moving your normal wake up time closer to the earliest times you want to wake up.
[–] pythonoob@programming.dev 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Go to bed early the two nights before, if it's just a one off thing. If I'm adjusting my schedule I'll take some NyQuil or melatonin to help sleep only the first two nights or so.

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

This is my way as well. I would add that I also don’t drink alcohol or eat 2-hours before going to bed. Z-Quil works in lieu of NyQuil.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Try Melatonin and Vitamin D about an hour before bedtime.

[–] Uranium_Green@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Wait, why vitamin D before bed?

I thought your body produces it in response to daylight, so I always thought that should be taken in the day?

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Actually, yeah, that may well be a "me" thing. I shouldn't presume. It really helps me feel more alert in the morning when taken before bed, I've noticed, having tested just Melatonin and the two together repeatedly, but I shouldn't presume everyone would need it. Though, it's Vitamin D, so it probably won't kill you.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago

Melatonin is a hormone. Taking it consistently can fuck up your body’s natural production of it. It should be used sparingly.

[–] gnomesaiyan@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My estradiol alarm. Starting the day has never felt so good.

[–] catbum@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Apologies in advance, for I am kind of dumb, but what does this mean?

[–] gnomesaiyan@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

Estradiol is a pill I take twice daily. It is hormone therapy to make me more feminine (I'm a transgender woman). The side effect is it makes me really happy about myself and life. Chronic depression is a thing of the past.

[–] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 5 days ago

Do you mean regularly or exceptionally?

If I need to get up early as an exception I just go to bed earlier and automatically tend to wake up before my early alarm.

[–] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

Don't forget that whatever method you adopt repetition and time are the most help. Like exercise or quitting smoking, eventually your body will get the message that now it's time to go to sleep, and now it's time to wake up. But it takes practice to make a habit. I heard once a habit takes on average 36 consecutive attempts, so expect at least a month or more before you don't feel like you're trying anymore and it just happens on it's own.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 54 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Wake up early consistently every day for at least a week before then. Also go to sleep early every day for a week before then.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago

This is not the way.

[–] rustyfish@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago

If I might add: Jump out of bed the moment your timer goes off. No 8 timers to wake up bullshit. Just one. When it rings -> you’re already on your way to the bathroom.

It’s kinda inhumane the first few times but the shock will wake you up. You will be too preoccupied with shivering and can’t feel like shit.

[–] TransplantedSconie@lemm.ee 47 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Eat relatively healthy, stay hydrated, and get 7 hours of sleep.

cracks a beer and stuffs a jalapeño popper in his gob

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago

This is not the way.

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Do as I say and not as I do

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[–] yesman@lemmy.world 33 points 1 week ago (3 children)

You can't make yourself sleep. You can make yourself get up. Force yourself to get up early the going to bed early part will take care of itself.

Oh and you should stop drinking liquids a couple of hours before bed. Unless your a man over 50, in that case if you want to sleep through the night you'll have to avoid any fluids after Tuesday.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago

This is not the way.

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[–] NatakuNox@lemmy.world 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Routine. Go to bed at the same time. Reduce electronics before bed.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 0 points 5 days ago

This is ignorance. It is not the way for many of us.

[–] Zerlyna@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No drinking definitely helps me.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works -1 points 5 days ago

Ignorance is what helps you.

[–] HuntressHimbo@lemm.ee 18 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I do the classic where I get anxious about having to be up and actually alert, and don't sleep as a result. Don't really recommend.

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Go to bed early if possible. Coffee if I can't and then try to stay away from other humans till I can be less of an asshole.

If I'm shifting my schedule, I'll try and aim for 9 -10 hours in bed until my body adapts, then it's back to the 6 to 7 I usually get.

[–] YourAvgMortal@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Pay attention to your sleep cycle, so you don’t wake up in the middle of deep sleep. And as others have said, wake up early the day before so it’s easier to fall asleep

[–] jqubed@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

I think I used to use this website to try to figure out when I should go to sleep based on when I needed to wake up. I eventually stopped because I got to where I could figure out 6, 7.5, or 9 hours + 15 minutes on my own (or even 3 or 4.5 hours if I made poor decisions about when I’m going to sleep). It seemed to help.

[–] P1nkman@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

My puppy. First thing at 0430, get up, take him out to pee, get dressed, go for a short walk, inside for training (all kibble is used to training), then hand him over to my wife at 0530. That hour really gets me going, but only because I want to give the puppy three best life, which also brings me joy!

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 week ago

Go to bed earlier. Give yourself 9 or 10 hours to sleep so that you wake up before your alarm rested.

Not possible for some people, but as a single person without kids it works for me.

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