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Yup. Totally real. It's all essentially public information to begin with. You have to have an address for taxes, and deeds need names on them. So there's a certain degree of information that's going to be available to pretty much everyone, if they go looking.
Phone books were useful at one point, though less so for individuals. They're still useful for local businesses.
Phone books were useful at one point, though less so for individuals.
Not saying you're wrong but it reminded me of a moment when I was a kid. I was all of five years old when I got lost in rural Arizona. I was visiting my grandparents and my cousin and I went out looking for turtles after a monsoon the night before. I got separated from my older cousin and then lost. I wandered around for hours until I found the main road that led through a nearby small town. I managed to hitchhike to the local trading post where the clerk managed to find my grandparents phone number to let them know they had found me.
They were sometimes useful. Also, they were great for prank calls.
I have never felt so old.
Name, address, and phone number of the account holder used to be published in books that got sent to everyone in the city and also just left lying in boxes that had phones in them if you needed to make a call while you weren't home, because your phone used to be tied to a physical location.
You also used to have to pay extra to make calls to places far away because it used more phone circuits. And by "far away" I mean roughly 50 miles.
It's not the biggest thing in the world, privacy wise, since a surprising amount of information is considered public.
If you know an address, it's pretty much trivial to find the owners name, basic layout of the house, home value, previous owners, utility bill information, tax payments, and so on. I looked up my information and was able to pretty easily get the records for my house, showing I pay my bills on time, when I got my air conditioner replaced and who the contractor who did it was.
As an example, here's the property record for a parking structure owned by the state of Michigan. I chose a public building accessible by anyone and owned by a government to avoid randomly doxing someone, but it's really as easy as searching for public records for some county or city and you'll find something pretty fast.
I use one of those services, Optery in my case. Do you think that's just a waste of money (honest question)? It definitely reduced my footprint for simple googling, but I've been wondering if it's really worth the cost.
Phone books had your name and phone number. Some had your street address too.
Before that, there were books that even had your occupation.
Random directory example from 1886:
Last name, first name, occupation, street name, number.
1790...
<waves at likely a fellow genealogist!> :)
Yes. I live in a larger metropolitan area and there were both white and yellow (business) page editions that were 2 1/2 inches thick each.
I'm amazed they were even that thin. It seems like they'd have to be huge.
Very small font on very thin paper.
Yeah it felt like the Bible and the white/yellow pages used the thinnest paper I’d ever seen
Mid 30s and I feel ancient right now.
Mid 40s, and I too feel old now - at first I thought OP was setting us up for a joke. The local phone company still delivered phone books to everyone in my city until a few years ago.
I think it was an old legal requirement for any phone company providing landline services to also provide phonebooks. Unfortunately most weren't even recycled, they were either burned in backyard firepits, or just thrown out
Yeah we were still getting them up to line 2010 or so, even though we haven't had a land line active in my house since I moved in.
You want to feel really old?
Man rotary phones were the best! Such a joy to dial.
Rotary phones weren't even that long ago?!??! I still remember the swooop, click-click-click-click sound, oh, and the ear shattering ringing bells. I am happy that in our lifetime we've come so far that kids don't understand tools from just a couple decades ago. I remember my father showing me a stack of punch cards he used at work and warning me not to touch them - but what I also know is, that those kids better get the hell off my damn lawn!
I would probably have similar difficulties... I can't even tell what they were doing wrong and then suddenly doing right. I do know the basic motion because I've seen it in shows I think, like you spin it around... but I never really thought about how precisely you do that. And you only had a certain amount of time to dial it?? That's crazy.
I will say I would have figured out you need to pick it up first sooner. But even my office phone I dial the number, see it on the little screen, hit send, and then lift up the receiver if I don't want to use speaker phone.
No joke! I don't know if I've ever actually seen a phone book. How would they even fit? Seems like they would have been enormous.
I did see a payphone in a restaurant once but it didn't work. I saw another one outside of a gas station on a road trip in the south. That one had a dial tone, but I think you had to pay more to call anyone we knew, so we just took selfies pretending to use it.
They were quite big, but used super thin paper and small font. There were books thicker still, but still the phrase "thick as a phone book" was used.
There were also Yellow Pages (same format as phone books, but entirely yellow) which listed businesess and stuff.
Pre-internet these were the household essentials.
There was also a number you could call to ask for phone numbers or other stuff. Basically a call in google.
The 1900s were crazy
Man, I was already feeling ancient. You using "1900s" didn't help much :D
I did that one on purpose as a joke! 😁
Residential listings were "white pages" and businesses were "yellow pages."
Yes, they were big, printed on very thin paper, with small typeface.
OMG 🤣🤣🤣
Edit: is Hershey where they make the chocolate? Didn't realize that was a town and not just a company. I'm learning so much today
Milton Hershey made chocolate, a town, and a school that inherited a controlling interest in the chocolate company.
And an amusement park
Wonka vibes intensify
Oh and a really good hospital too it looks like. Because he made chocolate shaped like a drop?? Dang
Looked it up, that school seems very cool. It does sound like you're describing Willy Wonka though.
You are going to think I made this up, but the street lights are shaped like Hershey kisses.
Like in the town town or the amusement thing.
Did this dude enslave small-statured orange people by chance?
The town, or at least the main street that goes by the factory. As far as I know, no orange people were enslaved.
Seriously though, Milton Hershey was surprisingly progressive for his time. He built affordable homes for his workers and helped them become home owners. The school he built was originally for orphaned boys.
Wow! I grew up with these. (Nostalgia intensifies!)
Did the voice on the payphone say: You must please deposit 25 cents to place your call LOL I think that's engrained in my memory
Fun fact:
Once touch tone phones became the norm there were actually games you could play by just calling a number. There was also a number you could call and get the local time and temperature. Oh, and lets not forget Mr. MoviePhone!
I don't remember a voice, but maybe! I just remember the tone because we were excited that it worked. Someone came out of the gas station and saw us taking pictures and stuff and they told us that it's there because until recently (and even still) cell coverage was really bad or nonexistent in the area, so a lot of people still used landlines.
One use for a phone book was to prop a little kid in a regular chair so they could eat at the table. Like, after they outgrew a baby highchair and could balance on their own. Also you could prove your strength by ripping one in half.
Listings were usually under the name of the adult male, for safety as well as sexism. A woman living alone would probably use just her initials for safety.
Generally, yeah. Your initials and family name - of the account payer only. First line of your address. I think the Terminator film, amongst others, shows this being used to locate someone.
In a public phone booth, accessible to everyone. Later then, you had the chance to opt out of the phone book "service", here in Geemany that was around the time alternative phone providers appeared. Now seems to be default, so you got to watch to whom you give your number.
Geemany, is that where the cricket got his name?
Actually in most places it was however the person wished to be listed and often included full first names and sometimes middle initials. Or could sometimes be a couple like “John and Mary Doe”
You could opt out of being listed, but anyone who did that was considered a weirdo hermit. Why would you not want someone to be able to call you?
Oh God, it feels so weird saying it nowadays.
And didn't you have to pay to not be listed?
You did, at least eventually. This could be argued to be a very early, not to mention analog, form of enshittification.
Charles Bukowski wrote maybe the most beautiful paean to the fact of the telephone book:
Heck, there was even overlap with the internet where you could briefly lookup anyone in any city's white pages listing online for free! People used to sign their Usenet posts with their full name, phone, and mailing address, though. We were really stupid in hindsight, but it was a more innocent time.
I hated how these were delivered to you whether you wanted them or not. So much junk.
They made really great fires though if you tore each page out, crumpled them up and stuffed them between the logs.
Also interesting, I took one about an inch or so thick and shot it point blank with a 12 gauge shotgun and tiny yellow circular confetti came out, which was neat to see.
My parents got the newspaper when I was young, that's kind of that was. It would just stack up because they rarely ever read it and then eventually we'd burn a bunch in the backyard firepit or use it to start the fireplace.
See the film, Terminator. It's how the machine finds women named Sarah Connor. Or maybe that was Kyle Reese. Either way, it was a major plot point.