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As far as I'm concerned this is a free speech comment section. Just don't forget the people who might be reading this and the beelaw.

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[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Stupid question: does this mean M>F or F>M? So I can better understand the reference.

[–] exocrinous@startrek.website 0 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It means she's transitioning femmewards. She wouldn't call herself something she hates being, now, would she?

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

And this is why I said "its a stupid question."

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 5 months ago

All questions are welcome. It used to confuse me a lot too.

[–] sarsaparilyptus@beehaw.org 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

If your name was your mother's maiden name followed by your bank password, what would your new name be?

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 2 points 5 months ago

Warrior******

[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 0 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Coming from a transfem ehis early in their transition, have you seen any change in how you're treated?

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yes. Clothing, makeup and hair and so on make a huge difference in how people perceive me. I just wear it because I like it, but it has an impact.

However, what matters most is how I feel and how I express that. When I show weakness some people will immediately exploit that to deal with their own frustrations. Likewise, when I feel fine, people love to tune in on that and I have zero issues socially.

So it really comes down to mental health, and I'm self aware of how I'm presenting.

[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 1 points 5 months ago

Yea, I wanna social transition too :3

Thank you for answering :3