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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by xilliah@beehaw.org to c/askbeehaw@beehaw.org

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As far as I'm concerned this is a free speech comment section. Just don't forget the people who might be reading this and the beelaw.

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[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Coming from a transfem ehis early in their transition, have you seen any change in how you're treated?

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yes. Clothing, makeup and hair and so on make a huge difference in how people perceive me. I just wear it because I like it, but it has an impact.

However, what matters most is how I feel and how I express that. When I show weakness some people will immediately exploit that to deal with their own frustrations. Likewise, when I feel fine, people love to tune in on that and I have zero issues socially.

So it really comes down to mental health, and I'm self aware of how I'm presenting.

[–] sleepybisexual@beehaw.org 1 points 6 months ago

Yea, I wanna social transition too :3

Thank you for answering :3