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    [–] mvirts@lemmy.world 50 points 7 months ago

    Theyre lamenting the fact that the tv is bootloader locked and cant run aosp and voyager... right??

    [–] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 30 points 7 months ago

    i envy the functionality of normal people, until i see someone engaging in a "normal" relationship. Then i immediately remember that i don't have things so bad, and that i should focus on what makes my life enjoyable.

    Anyway, i have i3 to configure, and other problems to ignore, i will go about my day now.

    [–] huntrss@feddit.de 28 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Her life is normal. The depiction on the television is fiction. No reason to be envious

    [–] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 months ago

    Build the world you want to live in.

    [–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

    Does that mean you are not happy in your own life?

    [–] huntrss@feddit.de 4 points 7 months ago

    Maybe yes maybe no.

    I still don't envy a situation in television that is so unreal like a prince (or something similar) dancing with his dream woman (I assume). It's so surreal tgat I can't take it serious and can't envy it.

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    [–] CCF_100@sh.itjust.works 22 points 7 months ago (2 children)
    [–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    she smells like greasy hair and rants about random statistics she finds interesting when you're trying to fall asleep

    [–] LANIK2000@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

    I have a hard time telling if you're trying to pain a negative picture or add to it.

    [–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)
    [–] Leg@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

    I like your facts.

    [–] Emerald@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    So there are pros and cons?

    [–] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 6 points 7 months ago

    Sounds like pros and pros to me

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    [–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

    Have nerdy gf, can only recommend.

    [–] uis@lemm.ee 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

    You want to make entire lemmy envy you?

    [–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

    Lol. The first thing I ever asked her was "PC or console?" She replied "PC". The rest is history.

    Every once I a while she asks me what would have happened if she answered "Console" and obviously I reply "We wouldn't be together!"

    Ona serious note, it was something I promised myself, that I would only be with a woman who was into gaming. I wouldn't even consider someone who didn't share it as a hobby.

    Previous relationships had shown me how important it was.

    [–] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 5 points 7 months ago

    Had similar thoughts myself working in a computer store, hearing guys say things like "My wife would never let me..."

    [–] backhdlp@iusearchlinux.fyi 20 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    The easy way to have both is:

    • be trans girl
    • get a gf who's also a nerd
    • not straight romance like on TV, but who cares, lesbians are better anyway.
    [–] bruhduh@lemmy.world 24 points 7 months ago

    Straight woman using linux is pure fiction, i mean, if nerds will see one in real life, she'll have to fight them off like in world war z

    [–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 19 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    I have genuinely never heard of a straight woman using Linux. They all seem to be trans

    [–] FilthyHookerSpit@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    Did you mean that you've never heard of a non-trans woman using Linux?

    [–] DrNyaaa@lemmy.world 12 points 7 months ago (1 children)

    cis is the word you are looking for

    [–] FilthyHookerSpit@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago

    Ah yes, you're right.

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    [–] dan@upvote.au 7 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

    I've worked with a few before.

    The thing is that unfortunately women receive a lot of harassment online, so they'll often use a gender-neutral or male-sounding username online, and maybe won't post as much so as to not draw attention to themselves.

    I'm not sure why it's more common to see trans women in online communities though. Maybe in general they're more thick-skinned or are less worried about posting online, or maybe just spend more time online in general? Not sure.

    [–] current@lemmy.ml 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

    massive correlation with being trans, and being super adhd/asd/french/some other mental disorder (having one disorder means you have a strong possibility of having others, they're all extremely tied into each other, including gender dysphoria) which are things that cause you to be significantly more likely to spend a majority of your time on the internet and on obscure/nerdy/highly derived forums for various complicated and straightforward reasons.

    being a social outcast also may push people towards corners of the internet, and trans people are often social outcasts even if they don't have some other disability causing them to be (especially those from more rural/more conservative or religious areas)

    [–] dan@upvote.au 3 points 7 months ago

    This is a great comment, and I should have said something similar in my comment. Thanks for writing it.

    [–] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 months ago

    Plenty of trans folks go harder on gender expression online because they have difficulties to do so IRL, even if being female presenting tends to result in more issues.

    [–] fossilesque@mander.xyz 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

    There's dozens of us, I swear! I know a few more too! I also load it on to hardware I upcycle for charity and I know a few went to women. :) Everyone can get comfortable with Mint. It's easier than Windows these days.

    [–] lemmyingly@lemm.ee 6 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    https://www.youtube.com/@VeronicaExplains

    IRL I only know of one person who uses Linux as a desktop computer.

    [–] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    i also know one person, that person is me :)

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    [–] menemen@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

    I knew one once, but she was borderline abused into it by her boyfriend. The same guy made me a linux user. He is quite succesful at that, if only he knew how to take a shower.

    [–] uis@lemm.ee 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)
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    [–] lemmeee@sh.itjust.works 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

    They don't know they don't have freedom.

    one of these days i am going to start walking up to random people in public and whisper this statement in their ear and then walk away.

    [–] Skates@feddit.nl 6 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Now you're just confusing cause and effect. Your life doesn't need to be Linux because of some external event that sucks, it's because of Linux that your life sucks.

    [–] Ziglin@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago

    Linux and FOSS are some of the nicest things on earth. If Linux or other FOSS didn't exist my life would would be worse.

    it depends on how you construct things i suppose. I don't use linux because it ruined my life, i ruined my life, and as a result, i now use linux.

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    [–] robocall@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

    I pass for normal sometimes

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