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[–] dgmib@lemmy.world 350 points 1 year ago (12 children)

Total monthly posts exploded after Spez enshitified Reddit, and is still growing steadily month over month.

That suggests that the current decline in monthly active users is primarily because lurkers who only came to lemmy after initially hearing about it on Reddit, went back to lurking Reddit.

The number of users that are contributors is still growing, and that’s what’s important.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 98 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks for the positive news!!

[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 61 points 1 year ago (7 children)

There’s also folks like me who came, 15 years on Reddit and I haven’t been back.

Those of us who actually interacted with the platform and left aren’t going back.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 20 points 1 year ago

Yep, arrived during the initial digg exodus, had tens of thousands of posts at Reddit, modded two subreddits. Closed my account the day during the protests and haven’t been back.

I’m not as active here, mostly due to a busier life but found a new home anyway.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago

I'm close to that too, but I think mine was 13 years. The weird thing that I've noticed is that most of the time I was on Reddit, almost no one I talked to in real life used Reddit. I struggled for years to try to get people to check the site out. Now that I left, I swear I hear someone I know mention Reddit exponentially more often. The average person doesn't give a damn about how shitty the platform has become, because they weren't around to see what it used to be. The average person WANTS to see ads interspersed with their cookie cutter content with stupid ass features like chat and followers. Good riddance.

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[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 43 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I'm yet to encounter the majority of issues I hear Lemmings griping about. Everyone has been pretty civil toward me. Every time my inbox blows up I feel dread, only to open it and find zero confrontation or vitriol. I'm not running into any racists, sexists, bigots, etc., and I certainly haven't noticed a decline in content (I browse Top ~6 Hours).

I realize my personal experience doesn't equate to these problems not existing, but I do get the strong impression that people are exaggerating greatly.

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Exactly my experience as well. Sure, I don't have infinite scroll, but I also don't feel like an algorithm is trying to make me angry. When I get responses, they're typically thoughtful or on topic.

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[–] greenfish@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm still seeing so much growth in new content and communities, idk if the raw number of users is the metric we even should care about. Is it the best measure of quality?

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[–] BetaDoggo_@lemmy.world 151 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Smaller communities aren't necessarily a bad thing. Compared to reddit I rarely feel like I'm commenting into the void.

[–] Damage@slrpnk.net 72 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Or into the thunderdome where no matter what you say, someone will fight you for it

[–] Bougie_Birdie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Them's fightin' words, pal!

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[–] FeelThePower@lemmy.dbzer0.com 101 points 1 year ago (9 children)

honestly it's replaced reddit for me in a good way, because it has just enough new content that I can check it before bed every day and scroll for a bit, but not enough to where I spend entire lunch breaks on it. sometimes I go days without even checking it. if anything it's made my relationship with my browser / phone healthier than reddit.

[–] lichtmetzger@feddit.de 28 points 1 year ago (11 children)

Exactly. Lemmy is an anti-doomscrolling platform and that's very healthy and amazing.

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[–] BluesF@feddit.uk 14 points 1 year ago

100%, all I really want is something I can look at and perhaps sensibly chuckle at when I have a few minutes... Not a pasasitic brain worm that really wants me to pay attention to it.

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[–] toothpaste_sandwich@feddit.nl 89 points 1 year ago (2 children)

There's hundreds of us! Hundreds!

But hey, apparently that's enough, I haven't been bored on Lemmy yet. And as the enshittification of Reddit continues there might well be some other exodus.

[–] saltnotsugar@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

Honestly there are enough quality posts and comments here that keep me engaged. It feels like a lot of creative people made the move.

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[–] hirogen@lemmy.world 63 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Lurker here. This is my first post. I ain't leaving either.

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[–] Rekonok@sh.itjust.works 62 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Being on Lemmy make me realise I was addicted to the front page of r*ddit having something new everytime I refreshed

Now I sort by top/6hours - reduced my screen time and see more quality things

It will be sad if peoples leave but if the top stay It is enough

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[–] ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 55 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemmy is losing users, but Reddit is using losers.

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[–] where_am_i@sh.itjust.works 53 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Reddit is like that ex the whole lemmy isn't over yet while loudly drunkenly screaming "I'm so over them!".

Advice: focus on yourself and your content.

[–] Exusia@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

me unloading every meme I've ever stolen because it drives engagement

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[–] ghostdoggtv@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago

To be honest I kind of like it here.

[–] jimbo@lemmy.world 49 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've been here for like 6 months now, maybe more. Posts SEEM to be getting more engagement than when I started. It definitely doesn't seem like there are fewer users.

[–] dumpsterlid@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

The vibrancy of communities is what matters, not total numbers. I have definitely noticed a solidification of new communities into places that feel longterm sustainable.

I mean also people are really tired and beat up, in the US most people are worse off than they were before the pandemic (not good). I don’t blame people for not having the mental bandwidth to join a new social network.

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[–] lost_in_the_bewilderness@lemmy.ca 38 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I've been thoroughly enjoying Lemmy much more than I did Reddit. I find it's overall less toxic and I'm therefore engaging more instead of just lurking.

One criticism, though: I really do not like the communities that use bots to copy over posts and comments from Reddit. I see no value in commenting or engaging on those posts as the original poster is not present for discussion. It's also kind of weird that the original posters are most likely not aware their post and its comments have been copied elsewhere and may be having further engagement.

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[–] Yamainwitch@lemmy.world 37 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I love how so many of us former reddit lurkers found a home on Lemmy/the fediverse. I have absolutely loved being a part of the greater community here, I don't know how else to describe it but it feels like my Internet home. I love all you fellow nerds. Obligatory fuck spez.

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[–] comrade19@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago (16 children)

My mental health is so much better than when i scrolled reddit. Everyone here is so nice and doesn't talk like 14 year olds with an ego. Also theres front page furry porn

[–] CoggyMcFee@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

I also find the limited number of posts and comments keep me at a healthy level of browsing. On Reddit I could get sucked down the rabbit hole of even one post, reading comments and replying to stuff for hours. There’s really very little of value that can ever be accomplished at that depth.

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[–] dauerstaender@feddit.de 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Fuck u/spez and fuck Tencent.

You know what? Fuck the enshittification of the internet too.

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[–] magnetosphere@kbin.social 26 points 1 year ago (8 children)

How many of those that we’re losing are dead alts, bots, and trolls? I’m not that alarmed.

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[–] eluminx@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

hear hear, i left cold turkey like 4 months ago, haven't looked back.

[–] Gabu@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

¥0U d0n'7 n33d t0 c3ns0r shit 1n h3r3. Th1s 1sn't th@t t!kt0k garbage.

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[–] slurpeesoforion@startrek.website 21 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Reddit for porn and porn only.

[–] lost_in_the_bewilderness@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I miss Tumblr porn... nothing will ever be the same.

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[–] Gomiyboy@lemm.ee 20 points 1 year ago

I should post more than I do. My engagement rate is low. Reddit is no longer an option.

[–] MargotRobbie@lemm.ee 19 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Some of you who are complaining Lemmy are seeing though rose-tinted glasses about what reddit was like back in the day. The majority of the site was never good, and it had always had plenty of embarassing/messed up things on there that you had to sift through, but it's a different, sterile kind of bad now.

Here are a couple of reminders of what reddit was actually like, in no particular order.

  • Ron Paul
  • Faces of Atheism, "Euphoric"
  • AdviceAnimals, Rage Comics
  • Spacedicks
  • r/jailbait
  • The entire Boston bomber saga

This is why I would never admit to using reddit in public, and until recent years, I would imagine most people won't.

So if anyone complains about how the current content on Lemmy is driving people away, remember, Lemmy is positively TAME compared to this supposedly "Golden Era" of reddit.

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[–] dallo@lemmy.kiois.net 18 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Alright I just created my own server with my own lemmy instance and created my first account. Let's stop lurking and push this number!

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[–] vivadanang@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Fuck Spez, Fuck Musk too. Lemmy's better now than reddit ever was.

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[–] rowanthorpe@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 year ago

I never used Reddit other than the rare view via a search-engine when trying to find something. I now lurk Lemmy daily but barely ever post. I read so many enlightening things here. Not leaving.

[–] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 year ago

I never posted on Reddit, I only commented, because every time I posted anything, someone would come be an asshole about it. Here tho, I've been posting a lot more than I ever did and I don't get abused for it, unless that was my intent.

[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly, good. The Internet was better when people were spread out across many small message board and chat rooms. The golden age of the Internet was when you'd do a search for something and 500 different forms and little websites would pop up.

Now's it's all reddit, "X," and shitty corporate owned nonsense. We turned 2020 Internet into 90's cable TV.

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[–] hyper@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I’ll be honest I still use Reddit when I’m trying to solve problems or look up niche stuff. But the iOS app is garbage… on my phone I only use Lemmy.

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[–] ieightpi@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

I said something in the other thread and I'm gonna say something here because I want to do my part to keep lemmy active.

I'm not leaving.

[–] pandacoder@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

Even when I'm not active on Lemmy, I am not on Reddit.

If I ever need information from Reddit (unfortunately there is still a lot of information only on Reddit...), Wayback machine I go.

Even if me requesting that Wayback machine archive a page, once it's saved we don't need to give reddit anymore clicks, Wayback machine gets the clicks instead. It's better than losing information outright.

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 14 points 1 year ago

I just check every few hours instead of doomscrolling. It'd be nice to have more content and more active niche communities, but somehow I think this is better for me lmao. Anyways it feels cozier but not on the decline imo

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