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I got banned from reddit (honestly feel a lot better without it)

But I miss being able to answer stupid questions and relationship questions.

Lemmy is great, but why aren't there that many people on here? I don't get it.

An I using my filters wrong or something?

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[–] bkrl@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I leaved Google and Reddit in last two days. Continue my devalleyzation (Silicon Valley).

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Congratulations, keep up the good work. One day you'll run a custom operating system on your phone and your own social network on the internet if you want. :D

[–] altair222@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago

Just reading this gives me a happy rush

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[–] Catradora_Stalinism@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

All instances (mostly lemmy and lemmygrad) are experiencing a steady increase in usership.

[–] TimothyMcFuck@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Is lemmy like or the same thing as mastodon? Like ok, I LOVED reddit. However there are so many crazy, Whitney, and totalitarian moderators who shut you down for defending your position or saying anything that goes against the echo chamber. I always had this 'feeling' of pressure to watch what I say. So at that point, it kills the experience. If I say you're an ass kisser, I'm permanently banned? How can anyone last on there? The internet is the wild west, you should be able to say what you want

[–] pingveno@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

As one of the moderators on a subreddit with a tight, strongly enforced civility policy, it really is one of the few things keeping the sub from chaos. So much of political discourse these days is either in echo chambers or has degraded discourse. Sure you can say whatever, but the whatever slowly becomes worth less. We've been told by multiple users that the culture our rules foster has made it so that the users have a place to have serious political discussions with a broad range of people in a way that they haven't in a long time. That's important because many people have given up on political discussions with people who aren't like-minded.

Alternatively, I'll put it this way: it's possible to thoroughly discuss a political matter without touching personal insults. When there is nothing stopping personal insults, Internet discussions tend to be "won" by the trolliest trolls and the loudest yellers, not the best ideas. The people with the best ideas give up as they get drowned out.

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[–] sexy_peach@feddit.de 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Also I think not having a huge amount of content is a drawback. Users are looking for that (including me).

[–] TimothyMcFuck@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yea dude same. Even when I sort by new, they are the same posts

[–] dwzero@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I sort by "top day", that seems to work fairly well for me... but I'm not very active either.

[–] Catradora_Stalinism@lemmy.ml 14 points 2 years ago (8 children)

filter by All, but if you don't like communism, do not do that

[–] mmhmm@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This should be posted on the main page; it would help resolve people's culture shock after leaving walled media gardens

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[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 14 points 2 years ago (15 children)

Competition, reputation and federation. In essence, retention.

  1. Competition

There's a ton of social news aggregators out there and most of them are much better at advertising their site than the entire lemmyverse together.

  1. Reputation

Lemmy has a reputation among many as a far left, for some - extremist platform. A large mastodon user that boosts accounts actively warned about Lemmy in a pretty bad way a while back. The other day a public representative for a company withdrew their community the same day they created it due to the public backlash.

  1. Federation

It's difficult to grasp how federation, and particularly lemmy federation works for people unfamiliar with the concept. They might get a wrong impression of the lemmyverse after visiting just one instance, not realizing it's only a part of it. Or they could be stuck on an instance with few posts that interests them.

[–] hamborgr@feddit.de 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The other day a public representative for a company withdrew their community the same day they created it due to the public backlash.

This was probably Bitwarden on the Sopuli instance right? Could you perhaps share a link discussing this in detail?

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] nachtigall@feddit.de 15 points 2 years ago (3 children)

we had to remove the Bitwarden instance for the time being, to review the flood of responses coming in to us from the community regarding information about the purpose behind Lemmy via the creators

What the heck? It's free software and a specific detail about free software is that it may be used for any purpose regardless of the authors ideas. That's some serious fucked up witch hunt.

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 6 points 2 years ago

it may be used for any purpose regardless of the authors ideas.

To be honest, I haven't seen the developers put any demands or anything on what people use it for. Just look at Wolfballs and how it's on https://join-lemmy.org/instances despite their home server blocking them. I think that's very respectable.

That’s some serious fucked up witch hunt.

I don't think so. It's just that a bad reputation lasts a long time, and the lemmy platform have had some rowdy representation for a while. Again, the developers have taken sensible steps when they started promoting Sopuli and Beehaw on the join-lemmy page, two seemingly wholesome instances that welcomes anyone.

[–] nachtigall@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] Catradora_Stalinism@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Its all right! Thank you for getting this for me!

god some of them read like bots on that mastodon thread.

[–] Catradora_Stalinism@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

what happened to them? I never heard about this.

[–] hamborgr@feddit.de 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Such a shame...

I was even excited to see them join a community as small as ours.

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 6 points 2 years ago

I know, it really saddened me. We need to discuss these things, work together to change the federated culture and become attractive to new users. But it feels like everywhere I look, people either want to compete directly or they can't see the big picture.

[–] TimothyMcFuck@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] altair222@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago

If youre looking for a more general purpose instance, try out beehaw.org

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[–] graphito@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I hope at some point regular users like you would help us to churn out enough content for the whole day. So far, thank you for your post, don't forget to explore other instances and global feed.

[–] TimothyMcFuck@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago

Thank you. You made my day :'D I'm definitely going to

[–] VinesNFluff@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago
  1. Lemmy is newer than Reddit. Reddit has been up for over 15 years.
  2. Lemmy is a Reddit clone but less well known, thus, whatever advantages it has over Reddit, you can pretty much assume anyone who comes to Lemmy is someone who was on Reddit and saw some reason to leave. Or even still uses Reddit but is trying their hand here too. At least for now.
  3. Thus, the Lemmy userbase will, at least within the near future, be a small subset of current or former Redditors.
[–] alatheus@lemmy.perthchat.org 8 points 2 years ago

Social media is "winner takes all". People go to where other people are. It's very hard to break out of that.

[–] sexy_peach@feddit.de 7 points 2 years ago (7 children)

We all were using reddit at some point without thinking about alternatives. Once thinking about alternatives, there are a lot of reddit alternatives out there.

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[–] nachtigall@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago

Chicken or the egg problem. Many people want a lot of (quality) content and diverse content comes from many people.

[–] MerchantsOfMisery@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

For the same reason a lot of people prefer cities over towns.

[–] Poed_P@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Clarifying question: what do you consider a lot of people?

[–] TimothyMcFuck@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

I guess at least 200k

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