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[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 23 points 1 year ago

Don't let your cat hunt your neighbor's pets

[–] saltnotsugar@lemm.ee 21 points 1 year ago

I’m no cat scientist but that stare indicates this feline has a VERY angry British lord as an internal monologue.

[–] Steeve@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Average lifespan of an indoor cat is 13 to 17 years, average lifespan of an outdoor cat is 5 to 7.

[–] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Does anyone known the average lifespan of cats who only walk on a leash? Thats what we do and dodo is a very sedate cat. (Heart issues and some sort of mobility disease currently in diagnosis will do that I suppose.)

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's not the being outside that reduces the lifespan, it's the fighting, hunting, getting lost and not eating and drinking properly, and diseases from rodents that knock them down

[–] teichflamme@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago
[–] Steeve@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

Definitely closer to an indoor cat, I think that's a great compromise for a cat that's determined to get outside

[–] MrsDoyle@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

How did you get it to walk on a leash? I tried that once with a kitten that adopted me. Nice little harness, and she reacted with unhinged fury when I buckled it on. Left her to calm down then clipped on the leash. Let’s just say I didn’t bother taking her outside for a walk.

[–] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You did way to much at once. It took me almost a year to train her. I started with just pulling the harness over the head. On and off. For some cats you need to start even slower and just give treats while they see the harness. (Or figure out what kind of things count as a reward for them, not all are treat motivated.) Eventually when the first step worked well I put on the full harness. Lots of treats and a few seconds then minutes until it's off again. Gradually lengthen it until she wore it indoors with no complaints for like an hour or two.

Second training thing done in the same time frame was get her used to her backpack. It's a pet carrier that magically was always full of treats initially. Eventually she had to go fully inside to get them. Them I zipped it close briefly for the first time. Eventually we graduated to her sitting (without a harness) in the closed carrier hidden in my flat while my front door was open. Over the following weeks o moved the carrier closer and closer to the door until we sat on our doorstep together. Then I trained lifting the carrier up and carrying her around indoors. Eventually I carried her outside without a harness onto the grass patch in front of where we live. We stayed 10 minutes and she spent the next two weeks mostly asleep digesting all the new sights, smells and sounds. Eventually she told me she wanted out so the next outdoor after that was with harness and leash.

Throughout the process you need to watch your cat closely. They are not an "it", they have fears and insecurities that you need to account for and go slower for. They like routine and don't care much about pleasing you. Dogs do, that's why it's much easier with them. For a cat you need to earn your right to walk beside her. Let them know you hear their complaints and work to alleviate them. That builds the trust you will need outdoors.

[–] MrsDoyle@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s amazing! Your cat is very very lucky to have you as her person.

We both are each others emotional support animal. 💚

[–] Montagge@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My friend's cat doesn't mind a leash, but I think she started when he was a kitten

Mine was approximately 5 and clearly had terrible experiences with humans before I got her from the shelter. It took nearly a year but we got there. Patience, empathy, trying new things when stuff doesn't work, most of all going at her pace.

[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

"But MY cat is so super smart, she'll never get run over, and I've never seen her kill any local wildlife, so obviously it's fine if I let her outside"

[–] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wonder when they will forget their resolve to never do this again and come home like this again.

[–] SlowNPC@kbin.social 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I had cats and a fish pond. Each cat tried catching the fish exactly once, ever.

Good for the cats, the fish and you. 🙂

[–] YurkshireLad@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago

Your cat has that “don’t…. say….. a….. single…. word….” look.

[–] Transcendant@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

"And where were you while I was fighting for one of my lives, hmm? WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING!"

[–] gsf@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 year ago

What a little goblin! I love it

[–] ComfortablyGlum@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

If cats spoke English, what would it be saying right now?

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] slevinkelevra@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

That's the most fitting answer. She definitely didn't like me wrapping her in a towel, but rather wanted to dry herself in the sun.

[–] Davel23@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

"I meant to do that".

It's not what it looks like!

[–] adriator@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

My neighbour has a fountain where he keeps some of the fish he catches. A few months ago my cat returned with three fishes (took her multiple trips carrying each in her mouth)

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

It looks like half cat, half rat!

[–] ech@lemm.ee -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It could've died! Hahaha, so funny! (/s, obviously)

Owners with "outdoor" cats are being negligent with their pet and carelessly destructive of the local wildlife.

[–] IMongoose@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I'm sure the neighbor loved having some random cat fuck around their pond too.