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You're assuming age of consent is about puberty, reproduction, but age of consent is about being intellectually capable of understanding and having responsibility for actions, which isn't something you can measure in a physical sense.
"the conclusion of sexual development allows a person to have sex without sustaining damage" this is baseless and incorrect and fucking creepy as shit, tbh.
How is it baseless and incorrect? Without puberty, humans would never become able to sexually reproduce safely and also develop into adults.
What's creepy about saying that ending puberty allows a person (or adult in that case) to perform sex safely (without sustaining damage)?
Being able to reproduce is completely irrelevant to whether a person is ready and able to enter into a sexual relationship. You're making shit up to skirt around that. That's creepy as fuck, you sound like you're trying to excuse child abuse.
Ohh. I should have just meant and said perform sex. I treated the two like they're the same. Sorry.
There's more kinds of damage than physical damage. Your wording is awful.
I thought that was implied through the general term damage, that's why I used the general term damage and not just physical. Sorry if it came off that way.
(Technically, all damage (physical, emotion, neurological, etc.) is physical as it affects the human body, but that shouldn't and hopefully doesn't downplay their effects and importance of recognition.)
I'd rather use the word "harm" than "damage", since "damage" removes the perpetrator from the equation. However, fewer words are not optimal in that case. I'm glad you clarified all that :)