this post was submitted on 07 Jan 2025
851 points (97.8% liked)

Funny

7186 readers
1273 users here now

General rules:

Exceptions may be made at the discretion of the mods.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] lime@feddit.nu 42 points 2 days ago (22 children)

it's not any less problematic if that's the case because it still assumes people taking the escalator do it because they want to, rather than having like a limp or something. that sort of normalized stigma isn't good.

[–] i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Obviously I'm obese because I decided to be born with a spinal defect. I should make better choices.

[–] Anivia@feddit.org 10 points 1 day ago

That's the worst excuse for being obese I ever heard. Does a spinal defect prevent you from eating less food?

[–] neatobuilds@lemmy.today 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Have you tried walking up the stairs to fix your defect

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What about yoga and positive thinking? /s

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago
[–] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

Don't normalize stigma, normalize sigma

[–] spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I think I disagree with you on this one. With obesity reaching pandemic levels internationally, I think forcing simple healthy choices is actually a great solution that helps a larger majority than those who may be stigmatized by using the escalator (for what may or may not be a visible reason to choose the escalator). At the very least it increases awareness of those healthy choices.

Still curious what the speech bubble says though..

[–] fine_sandy_bottom@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Hard disagree here.

"Forcing simple healthy choices" completely disregards the many and varied causes of obesity.

This type of thinking reminds me of the war on drugs approach to drug abuse.

Quite obviously, the underlying causes of obesity are many and varied. The only way to resolve an "obesity pandemic" is to have more services directed at understanding an individual's unique circumstances and helping them develop strategies to improve their health.

This sounds expensive, and doesn't sound like an election-winning policy in 2025, but that's where we are at.

[–] spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

To be fair, I didn't propose this approach as an absolute solution to the obesity pandemic. I said I agree with this method. There are obviously contributing factors that I've listed elsewhere, but I stand by that - you don't have to agree with me. It can easily be part of a broader strategy.

If you wanted to solve the obesity pandemic, 100% resolved, absolutely you need systemic change and individualized services. And yes lol it would be a wildly expensive endeavour.

Edit: phrasing

[–] lime@feddit.nu 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

if obesity is reaching a pandemic level, it is obviously no longer treatable with "why don't you walk up the stairs for once, fatso?". if a majority of people are obese it is no longer a question of lifestyle choices.

[–] Cypher@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That’s the thing, obesity isn’t as much of a problem in Korea.

Something is working.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 6 points 1 day ago

they also have massive problems with body image related depression.

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Exactly. Go to a grocery store and load up on unhealthy shit, then go back to the same store and load up on healthy shit. The price difference is insane, especially when considering shelf life.

I buy frozen vegetables mostly, but I could feed my family a whole lot cheaper on cheap TV dinners.

Now we have (at least in my part of the US) dollar generals popping up in food deserts with the lowest quality shit on the planet. In the neighborhood I grew up in, most people didn’t have cars and the nearest grocery store was 30 miles away. That community is surviving on dollar general groceries now. When I was a kid we bought brown beans and white rice in bulk and lived mostly on that. We drank powdered milk.

When my brother and I refused to eat beans and rice, my mom would color it with food coloring to get us excited. “Who wants BLUE RICE AND BEANS?!” “WE DO! WE DO!”

If we had grown up in the world today, we’d probably be struggling with obesity.

[–] spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

"Go to a grocery store and load up on unhealthy shit, then go back to the same store and load up on healthy shit. The price difference is insane, especially when considering shelf life."

This intrigues me, and definitely isn't my experience. Do the same thing in my country and you come out with a comparable amount of food, perhaps influencing the choice element I describe above.

One commentary I've come across about American food is that the shitty stuff is intentionally priced so cheaply as to make the good stuff seem insanely priced. My experience above suggests that this might have a grain of truth to it. If willing to share, how do you feel about this commentary (i.e., what do you think of it)?

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think it has to do with the healthier stuff having a shorter shelf life more than anything. They end up throwing a lot of it out and that probably has something to do with it being priced higher.

I can’t say for sure, that’s just a guess. The stuff that doesn’t expire for 3 or 4 years is naturally going to be a safer bet than the stuff that expires in a week.

America is huge too, and moving stuff around the country isn’t cheap.

I’m just an idiot from the middle of nowhere spending a fortune so my kids can eat healthier. We have broccoli or asparagus almost every night (mostly broccoli because I don’t buy asparagus frozen), fresh fruits, some chicken, fish, or pork, and it is insane what my grocery bill is every month. I also have a big family though. I have 4 children living at home, so there are 6 of us.

That's super interesting. For me, healthier stuff is expensive but affordable, so buying in balance is easier. It goes bad, sure, but ppl seem gravitate to the fresh stuff? So it sells.

In my experience, long preserved foods are typically seen as like, in case "I need a meal on a Wednesday." Just a very stark difference in experience/culture that is absolutely intriguing to me, I don't know if I have anything valuable to add haha.

I'm Canadian so I know what you mean about moving things across the country (much of our winter veggies are Californian or Mexican).

Big family or no, that's awesome - it's expensive enough raising a family, so just a wholehearted good on ya! Food is hugely personal (for obvious reasons), and we're exactly the type of idiots caught up in the chaos of making life work. Thanks for sharing and I hope you have a happy, healthy year 😊

[–] spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works -3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Then we likely disagree on the cause of the obesity pandemic. In my view, obesity is a choice moderated by increasingly inactive lifestyles, high volumes of low quality food, and genetics (obviously not a choice).

Add in contributing factors of affordability, general apathy towards nutrition, ready availability of food, grabbing food for all occasions (stress/joy/boredom), and corporations (esp. major corporations; food engineering for addictiveness and flavour, rampant marketing, and low quality offerings to bolster profits and scale).

So in my view, still largely long-term lifestyle choices, with corporate influence definitely playing a part.

But you seem to think differently, what do you believe I'm not seeing?

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

increasingly inactive lifestyle are caused by inaccessible cities, car reliance, and multiple-job wage slavery

no one just up and decides “gee whilikers im going to start having an inactive lifestyle” one day lol

[–] spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works -2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

You make a great point - the built environment is absolutely a contributor!

I would add attitude too. I know ppl who will not do a 40 minute walk, even if it's a viable option. "Why not Uber, that's sooo faaar" is still a choice haha

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I would add attitude too.

i wouldn’t 🙂

Haha I know!

I've had some great conversations because of this and that there are many cultural/societal elements that I both do and don't agree with. I've learned that others don't share my opinion and I'm okay with that 😊 I hope you have a great 2025!

[–] lime@feddit.nu 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

you list it all, but i think the things you class as "contributing factors" are more significant, because it would explain the numbers better. i just think that it's statistically improbable that that many people would choose sedentary life. it doesn't match with my perception of my surroundings.

a parallel: if some people have better teeth then average, it is probably because they care about their teeth. but if the majority of a community has better teeth than the rest of the country, there's probably something in the water.

That's fair, I can see why. My surroundings have a higher rate of knowingly sedentary behavior/wild overcomsumption, which affects my bias. I like your analogy.

I still think personal autonomy has an impact. I'm a food nerd and in my experience the average person does a terrible job of assessing energy in (ooh donut) versus energy out (one calorie is harder to burn than ppl like to admit). Hell, it took me 15 years to figure out.

So maybe not a conscious choice of a sedentary life, as much as the lack of understanding or awareness of how that unintentional choice affects them (plus all the factors we've discussed).

But this is just my two cents, I'm no pro lol thanks for digging into this with me 🙂

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Surely those people can disregard a picture on the floor, no? Anyone with any form of disability has to deal with far more nonsense than this (revolving doors, for example).

[–] lime@feddit.nu 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

it's not about the people who have to take the escalator. it's about what people who have the choice think about them.

if you've ever been mad at someone who parked in a handicap spot only to then get out and have seemingly nothing be visibly wrong with them, you know the thoughts i mean.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm only mad if they don't have handicap signage on their vehicle, because a lot of disabilities aren't immediately apparent. For example, my sister-in-law has been diagnosed w/ POTS, but can walk unassisted over moderate distances and frequently doesn't bother w/ a wheelchair (leaning on a cart is usually good enough). However, some days it's much worse, and getting back to the car can be a real struggle. She usually carries a pop-up stool in case she needs a rest, so that would be the only indicator (and hers is pretty compact and not super obvious at what it is).

I'm pretty sure nobody actually cares who rides an escalator, and if they do, they could see a cane and quickly conclude why they made that choice.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

but then you understand it, because some people get really mad at people with signage that don't have visible disability. and the illusion of choice presented on this picture is part of that mindset.

analysing things like this is never about the consequences for a single person, but the consequences on the thought patterns of the society that puts these up and have them in their mind while going about their day.

if someone hurls a misguided insult at you for not taking the stairs, no biggie. if society at large quietly shuns you for it, that's not gonna be good for your mental health in the long run.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

some people get really mad

Sure, some people are douchebags. I highly doubt that is any kind of majority, just a very vocal minority.

I doubt most people would even look at this sign, and most of those that do probably won't care one way or another if a visibly fit person takes the escalator. They might snigger a bit to their friends after (hey, I saw a dumb westerner taking the escalator, they obviously don't care about health), but if this really is Korea, nobody will say or do anything about it, even if it's someone they know.

I may be completely misguided here, but that's my take from having been married to a Korean (moved from Korea after finishing K-12) for over 10 years (assuming this is Korea; the white text certainly isn't Korean, but I can't make out the black text). Nobody says anything to strangers in public, and especially not something that could embarrass them...

[–] lime@feddit.nu 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

in Scandinavian culture there's this thing called Janteloven. it's from a Danish book about a guy that moves to a small town and is basically silently bullied by its population. it's related to tall poppy syndrome in that it describes how society does "othering". basically, if you are in any way different you will become an outcast, not because anyone does anything to you, but because nobody does anything for you.

if you're a tourist it's whatever. if you live there it can be soul crushing.

Yeah, I can certainly see that. I live in an area with a strong local demographic, and if you're different, you won't fit it. Everyone goes to the same church, does similar activities, etc, and if you don't fit in to that, you're essentially alone in a sea of people.

[–] batshit@lemmings.world 2 points 2 days ago

I don't have any disabilities and I still hate revolving doors so much.

Yeah as a disabled person seeing that would kind of suck.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 5 points 2 days ago

Yeah, fuck me for using a cane, I'm such a big fat fatty and want to be fat.

load more comments (16 replies)