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It's so easy to rip people down. Pump someone's tires. It means way more than you can imagine.

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[–] parody@lemmings.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is it OK to 💩 on men in the meantime? (I’m a man who’s usually fine with it.)

e.g. IDK, “men are predators” or something - really broad brush stuff that has an origin in accuracy, but is a majorly broad brush all the same. I’ve wondered if we don’t need to be more careful with those statements, as heartfelt as they may be.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

So long as it's measured self depreciation, it's probably fine. If you want a women centered version of this, see @femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] parody@lemmings.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Ah maybe not self deprecation, like maybe you see a story about a rapist and comment

FUCK MEN! Teach your boys not to rape

I guess complaining about white people can be the same thing. Special rules for criticizing oppressors; you’d only hear complaints from right wing folks.

RE: femcelmemes: thanks, had never browsed the community itself before - tame stuff overall :)

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I try to keep it positive there, as I've seen similar communities turn into spiraling pits of self hatred. Making fun of weakness is productive, but feeling ashamed is not.