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I don't have an answer to your question, but I love your John Stuart Mill quote. I've just had a barrage of comments trying to rip me apart for suggesting that a political opponent's position should be understood; and no comprehension of the point this quote puts across really well.
The membership of Lemmy is overly-emotional, flibbertigibbety infants, as a rule. It's disheartening. It's the mainstream. Bobbleheads as far as the eye can see.
Ironically, I've never understood the mindset of those commenters. How can you argue against something, or even know if you should argue against it, without knowing what "it" even is?
I generally go a step further than believing that every argument should be understood, and say that every argument should be considered as well. You shouldn't reject an argument purely because it gives you bad vibes. If it's obviously wrong, it should be obvious why it's wrong. In practice you don't always have time to engage with someone promoting obviously dumb ideas, but you should at least yourself know why you consider them to be wrong. I call this "radical possibilism" because you always consider the possibility that an argument is correct.
You might like this podcast: https://youarenotsosmart.com/
This guy has done a lot of great work in trying to understand how conspiracy thinking works, how minds can change, how arriving at a state of "knowing" is an emotional state (and not a rational one), how biases change people thinking, etc.
Thanks, sounds interesting! Maybe this will be the one that finally gets me to check out podcasts :)
He has written a book if you prefer to read
They like it or hate it. There is flocking behavior too. Simple. Pretty easy to model, no doubt.
Glad you liked it, It's one of my favourites.
Sorry about the barrage of unfun comments. The internet is so wonderful and so goddamn annoying at the same time eh?
Thanks. Comments don't really bother me. It would be a hard life trying to use social media without thick skin.
But your quote came at a good time to make the point I was looking to make.
For your question about news, I would highly recommend using an RSS app. Whichever news source you use, its much better when you get your news in time order instead of their stupidly curated website front pages.
Speaking as a person who's skin is as thin as rice paper, we ragequit daily.
Can you suggest an rss app for someone who is tech dumb?
I only use it on android, but there are RSS apps on every platform.
I think Pluma is the best.
Of you care about it being free and open source, then "Read You" on f-droid.
If you search for RSS on any app store it will give you lots of options and you can look through screenshots to see what you like.
RSS is a great idea, not sure why I haven't done that. Maybe I'll set one up this weekend!
Thanks!