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My thoughts is that it's a simple situation really. If they're harassing or assaulting people, the women will call the cops or something, simple situation and get the guy arrested. If he's not doing anything, it's nothing harmful. Apparently that's not a solid enough answer. What should I have said?

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[–] bane_killgrind@slrpnk.net 27 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah. All private ones are already.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 2 points 10 hours ago (5 children)

I actually prefer men and women separate restrooms because using the urinals is faster than going in to stalls, which reduces the wait time a bit. Then again, if you have two non gendered restrooms, you'll get double throughput. Also, it would take a while to get adjusted to seeing both genders in the same restrooms, maybe I'm overthinking it, I've heard a university near me has non gendered restrooms only and the students are still adjusting to it.

Apologies if I'm rambling.

[–] bane_killgrind@slrpnk.net 2 points 5 hours ago

Nah you are good.

The thing about this is that men are provided more space for essentials in the workplace, and making men stand to piss means less physically abled people have more trouble operating in that workplace.

So outside the gender ick issues there's equality reasons that gender neutral toilets are a good thing.

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, you could have urinals in one room and then gender-neutral toilets in another room. Urinals and gender neutral toilets are not mutually exclusive I think.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 1 points 5 hours ago

Hmm good point. In all the gender neutral restrooms I've been in, there's usually just stalls and no urinals, that's why I only thought of a stalls only restroom.

[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 2 points 1 hour ago

a lot of queer spaces are converting regular bathrooms to gender neutral bathrooms and the signs often say “with urinals”… who cares if there’s a woman using the bathroom while you’re using the urinal?

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I'm trans and the only reason I stopped using urinals is because it freaked the men out too much lol

They're so convenient! You don't have to touch them! And it feels like my bladder empties more completely when standing idk

Gender! 👏 Neutral! 👏 Urinals! 👏

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Meh, urinals are pretty gross and you save pretty marginal amounts of time over quickly sitting down at a toilet

[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

they also save a lot of space and money so there tend to be more. at bars and clubs in particular where the men’s has urinals, the difference in line length is pretty stark