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I don't do much. Most of them are friends from when I was a kid but in a weird way I worry they would judge me in a disappointed kind of way with how my life is going.
Most of them have kids, spouses, or careers at this point so I don't know if they would be willing or able to make the time
Making time, maybe that's a big part of it.
I have a handful friends that I kind of still keep in touch with but only have time like once every 2 months to meet up and hang out.
What more for those old friends I haven't heard of in a while.