Thinkbubble: "She's probably just being nice" Drawing of two people with long hair and boobs kissing one laying on the other. The thinking dots connect to both.

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[–] Gustephan@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

You ever start replying to disagree with a comment and then realize the things you've normalized in your romantic past are a bit fucked up? That's where I'm at right now

I've had sex plenty of times I didn't really want to in the past. It goes like

She's horny and wants to fuck. I am not

If I say no it's a self esteem meltdown

If I say yes it's a bit of a workout that ends in cuddling, which I always want

It's just always felt better for my life to be an on demand dick machine than somebody who can say no