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Could be the type of pet, the breed, how they behave, their relationship...anything about the pet that informs you on their human.

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[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I stereotype that all animals are a reflection of their owner's behaviors. Mostly because I've shaped every animal I've ever been around for more than a few weeks. It is likely my consistent routine, intuition, and self awareness. I don't put up with crap, I reward good behavior, but I punish bad behavior. I primarily withdraw my attention in a pronounced way, but when an animal intentionally acts out by biting, stealing, scratching or trespassing intentionally, I toss a pillow at them. It only takes a couple of times and it stops the behavior to the point where I only need to grab a pillow in the future. I might need to toss a pillow once or twice a year. Above all, I am simply consistent in positive attention. My cats come when I call, one will fetch toys, the other asks to be brushed. We all prefer quiet. I am never scratched, bitten, or threatened with play biting or scratching. I've had a dog that played by the same rules. But like, when people come over I herd them into my room, there is a hideaway under my bed. I make new toys out of junk all the time, etc. All of my pets are like this, so I view all pets as a reflection of the consistency, self awareness, and intelligence of their owners.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Just a question, no offense - are you diagnosed with ASD?

[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I'm in social isolation from disability. On a full day of testing for cognitive effects from a massive head injury with a psychologist, I'm well above average in every category tested. I'm an outlier for functional thought with an abstract focus based on intuitive thinking skills. It is not ASD. I can seem odd to some opposing personalities, but these seem just as odd to me.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 months ago

To me it's mostly the emphasis on consistency and routine that stood out. Best wishes