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What industry secret are you aware of that most people aren't? (programming.dev)

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[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Personality, presence and confidence

Natural self confidence, but NOT an arrogant selfish confidence.

Some people naturally have confidence and presence and some people need to build it as a skill.

I know guys and gals with little to no knowledge or skill build up careers because they just knew how to talk and connect to people.

I also know guys and gals with years of education and degrees but have little to no way of politely or easily getting along with people.