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How does it feel being in a relationship? (lemm.ee)

submitted 5 months ago by FookReddit69@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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The fact I'll die alone without ever feeling the love of a woman besides my mother and without a child saddens me. So, as kind of a consolation, I want to know... How does it feel? Being in love and being together, the sex part, just living together and all that...

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[–] FookReddit69@lemm.ee -3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Having a decent job, being charming enough, being the rock they can rely on, being romantic when they want, owning their own place. Being extroverted enough.

I'm nothing of that.

[–] hellothere@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 months ago

I can assure you that not all women want all those things.

Sure, some do, absolutely. But others don't, or they value them in different amounts.

And again, knowing how to support someone else emotionally - being their rock - is not something you are born with. It is learnt, and everyone can learn it, if they want to. But it will take a long time.