Obviously I know nothing about the guy's relationship, but that's a huge red flag to me. That said, who knows, they may have a very loving, healthy and stable relationship, and this is just a jokey gripe she makes for funsies.

[–] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 11 points 7 months ago (2 children)

We do have a loving and stable relationship. Complete with kids and a mortgage! And we still fuck like rabid apes.

[–] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 9 points 7 months ago (1 children)

fuck like rabid apes

You mean painfully, with jerky twitches, difficulty swallowing and ultimate brain death?

[–] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 2 points 7 months ago

Not sure about literal brain death but pretty much.

[–] SturgiesYrFase@lemmy.ml 4 points 7 months ago

SICK! Super happy for you my dude! Was worried with what you'd said, but, obviously, that's a single sentence.

[–] Slovene@feddit.nl 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It's bisad.

[–] Patches@sh.itjust.works 1 points 7 months ago

NonMelancholy

[–] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I'm not saying she feels like she settled, just that I wouldn't have met her in the first place if she had been accepted by any of the women who she met before me. Candy's loss though.

[–] Donkter@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

My bi partner is still slightly annoyed that she's had to settle

I wouldn't have met her in the first place if she had been accepted by any of the women who she met before me.

I understand that I know nothing of your life. And I'm sure it's going fine. But the way you're framing it while defending the relationship seems like you need to have a bit more of a talk about it.

[–] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 1 points 7 months ago

What i mean is she wasn't looking for a male partner when I met her, but there I was: tall, handsome, charming, sensitive, well spoken, 8 inch dick etc etc. And now we're 15 years in, have multiple children and still find time to bump uglies at least 4 times a week. I know she's into girls, but it doesn't make her less into me and I can still make her sound like brain damaged livestock. So thank you for your concern, but we're good.