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[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 37 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Why you all kink shaming? Dudes a sub if I've ever seen one.

[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Dang I don't see it as kink shame just sad shit. Sex shouldn't be a transactional coin.

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago

Maybe that's his fetish

[–] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

I don't know, from my limited view into the kink community if this was a sub/dom setup he wouldn't need the incentive, the subs I know of in the lifestyle not just the bedroom are legitimately dedicated to their dom counterpart and would do their damndest to keep on top of their duties, not have to be coerced into doing them by a tacky chart

I'm no expert though, I just hang out in a sub focused discord

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

You can't just assume all kinks are exactly the same. Even though, in actuality the OP is fake.

[–] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 9 months ago

Of course you can't, just from the subs in the lifestyle I've talked to, this situation really doesn't say sub/dom at all to me

[–] bramblepatchmystery@slrpnk.net 4 points 9 months ago (2 children)

He married his Dom though. It's no longer a kink but a lifestyle.

[–] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

the subs I know of in the lifestyle not just the bedroom are legitimately dedicated to their dom counterpart and would do their damndest to keep on top of their duties

[–] bramblepatchmystery@slrpnk.net 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

But no 2 people on earth sharing a life together are living their sexual roles 24/7.

Things like this are probably used to build up anticipation for their next session.

If real, I also doubt this is classic Dom/sub play but rather a schoolboy variant.

[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 9 months ago

Right? I hate to be a dick on the internet but the person needs to learn to read lol

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Haha this is how they keep it fresh