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What was the biggest culture shock you ever experienced? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 2 years ago by can@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] ComatoseSquirrel@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Oh man, this is relatable.

If I'm visiting my parents, my mom insists on "visiting" -- that is, either sitting and talking endlessly, playing boardgames, watching a movie together, or going out to do something. She has complained about us being unsociable for sitting and reading for an hour or two after spending the whole day doing things she wants.

My in-laws, on the other hand... don't. There is absolutely no pressure to do anything. They are just happy to have us there, regardless of what we choose to do (or not do). Speaking from 13 years of experience with them: it's awesome.