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[–] tsonfeir@lemm.ee 48 points 10 months ago (3 children)

For the lefty women, this is awful. For the righty women: this is what you voted for, suck it up and carry that dead baby.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago (4 children)

Come on, be better than them. No woman deserves to suffer through this even if they voted against their own best interests.

[–] tsonfeir@lemm.ee 36 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It’s horrid, I know. To have a dead baby inside you and to suddenly find that anti-abortion lawmaker you so gleefully supported is preventing you from removing its lifeless body. Who could have known, right? Maybe if we pray?

Maybe going through that will give them the missing empathy they needed to be a decent human being

[–] docAvid@midwest.social 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The thing is, I don't really care what people "deserve", or what they "don't deserve". How should I know? I'll be a dork and quote Tolkien: "Many that live deserve death. Some that die deserve life. Can you give it to them, Frodo? Do not be too eager to deal out death in judgment."

But I do care about who's in the pact. We have an agreement, between us, we decent people. We watch out for each other. We protect each other. Or if we can't, when something terrible is done to somebody, at the very least, we speak out, in protest, in sympathy, in sorrow. And the people covered by this pact, as far as I'm concerned, are the people who follow it - that's it, the sole criteria for membership, about the lowest bar possible.

I'm not going to force somebody to carry a dead fetus because they forced other people to do so, but when the cruel laws they always thought would only apply to other people suddenly apply to them, I don't owe them my sympathy either. They aren't in the pact.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Frank Wilhoit: “Conservatism consists of exactly one proposition… There must be in-groups whom the law protects but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect.”

Which is why you and others here are disturbing me quite a bit right now.

[–] docAvid@midwest.social 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hmm, a quote I quite like myself. Let's see. I have defined two groups. I have not suggested that either group should not be bound by the law, nor that either group should by better protected by the law than the other. In fact, this entire part of the discussion is predicated on the law, which one group has imposed on the other, applying equally.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Then shouldn't the call be "let's change the law so none of these women suffer" rather than "it's good if the women who voted for the people who changed the law suffer for it?"

[–] guacupado@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Trying to be better is why conservatives are fucking us as much as they are.

Fuck that. Those women who voted for this fucking deserve it.

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 2 points 10 months ago

I'm with you on this. I worry that too mamy people cheer on the pain of the "other" without realizing that in doing so they become the worst of what they hate

People make bad decisions, but then some of them grow. To tell them that they deserve their pain, just because they didn't understand what it was they were doing, is pretty fucked up

[–] assassin_aragorn@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Eh. If they genuinely have a change of heart and are horrified at their previous self, we can afford to show grace. If they go right back to supporting Republicans, fuck them.

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago (2 children)

They have a change of heart but years later after they are past the age to have kids they go right back. The number of older women trying to take away the rights they enjoyed is disgusting.

[–] Facebones@reddthat.com 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

100% this. I personally know women who exercised their Roe v Wade right to abortion and are now ALL IN on zero tolerance bans regardless of baby or mother health......now that they can't get knocked up.

[–] assassin_aragorn@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago
[–] assassin_aragorn@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Yeah fuck them. That's utterly vile and reprehensible.

[–] docAvid@midwest.social 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] tsonfeir@lemm.ee 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] docAvid@midwest.social 0 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I appreciate the intent of your correction. For most abortions, yes, blastocyst. I'm not an expert, but I think that the body will usually safely flush out a failed blastocyst, and as the article said, many of these absolute nightmare scenarios cannot be diagnosed until well past that stage, so in this context, I think fetus is correct.